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Chocko Valliappa is the founder and CEO of Vee Technologies, a global IT services company; HireMee, a talent assessment and talent management start-up; and vice chairman of The Sona Group of education institutions.
A fourth-generation entrepreneur, Valliappa is a member of Confederation of Indian Industry, Nasscom, Entrepreneurs Organization and Young Presidents’ Organization.
He was honoured by the YPO with their Global Social Impact award in 2018.
An alumnus of Christ College, Bangalore, Valliappa holds a degree in textile technology and management from the South India Textile Research Association. His advanced research in the Czech Republic led to the creation of innovative polyester spinning machinery.... more
Sanjeeva Question by Sanjeeva on May 10, 2024Hindi
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My brother is Btech in Computer science and engineering from HBTI Kanpur which he did in 1997 with 62% marks. Unfortunately while on job he met with an fatal accident in 2000 and was bedridden and underwent treatment till 2010. Now he is mentally and physically 95 % fit. He lives with mother who doesn't want him to live independently because of his health. He did a couple of job on adhoc basis ( not related to his education) near our home in Sidkul Haridwar till 2020 but lost job due to Covid. Can you please suggest something that he can work from home and earn. He has lost confidence and has become pessimist about his career. Please advise.

Ans: Your brother needs all the family support to come out of this traumatic life experience. Pl continue to cheer him up. Best course for him would be to upskill his computer science knowledge as this is one area that can lend opportunities to work from home. There are several online forums that can open up job opportunities. Similarly he can connect with his network of friends and classmates from HBTI over linkedin or Whatsapp or Facebook groups and seek connections to jobs that his network may know.
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My elder brother is 27, BTech computer science from Lucknow. He worked for 6 months in an e-commerce start-up in Gurgaon and quit to preparing for UPSC and government jobs. He is still unemployed and doesn't want to give up. Everyone at home is concerned about his career and future. Should he continue preparing for his exams or look for a job? Kindly advise.
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Choosing between continuing exam preparation and seeking a job is a significant decision that should be based on various factors. Here's some advice tailored to your brother's situation:

1. Evaluate His Progress: Assess how much progress your brother has made in his exam preparation. Has he been consistent in his studies? Has he shown improvement in his performance in mock exams or previous attempts? If he's making good progress and has a strong determination to pursue a career in government services, continuing with his exam preparation might be a viable option.

2. Consider the Competitive Landscape: The competition for government jobs, especially UPSC exams, is intense in India. He should realistically evaluate his chances of success in these exams based on factors such as his academic background, preparation level, and the number of attempts he has left. If he faces challenges in cracking these exams, he may need to reassess his strategy.

3. Financial Stability: It's essential to consider the financial implications of continuing exam preparation without a stable source of income. If your brother's savings are running low or if he's dependent on family support, he might need to explore job opportunities to support himself financially.

4. Professional Growth: Working in the IT industry for six months has provided your brother with valuable experience. While preparing for exams, he could consider exploring part-time or freelance opportunities in his field to keep his skills updated and gain practical experience. This can enhance his resume and provide him with additional career options in the future.

5. Seek Guidance: Encourage your brother to seek guidance from career counselors or mentors who can provide insights into his career options and help him make an informed decision. They can also provide support and advice tailored to his individual circumstances.

Ultimately, the decision to continue exam preparation or look for a job should be based on a thorough assessment of your brother's goals, abilities, and circumstances. It's essential for him to weigh the pros and cons carefully and choose a path that aligns with his long-term career aspirations and financial stability.

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Dear Sir, I did my BTech from a normal engineering college not very famous. The teaching was not great and hence i did not study well. I tried my best to learn coding including all the technologies like html,css,javascript,react js,dba,php because i wanted to be a web developer But nothing seem to enter my head except html and css. I don't understand a language which has more complexities. Is it because of my lack of experience or not devoting enough time. I am not sure. I did many courses online and tried to do diplomas also abroad which i passed somehow. I recently joined android development course because i like apps but the teaching was so fast that i could not memorize anything. There was no time to even take notes down. During the course i did assignments and understood the code because i have to pass but after the course is over i tend to forget everything. I attempted a lot of interviews. Some of them i even got but could not perform well so they let me go. Now due to the AI booming and job markets in a bad shape i am re-thinking whether to keep studying or whether its just time waste. Since 3 years i am doing labour type of jobs which does not yield anything to me for survival and to pay my expenses. I have the quest to learn everything but as soon as i sit in front of the computer i listen to music or read something else. What should i do to stay more focused? What should i do to make myself believe confident. Is there still scope of IT in todays world? Kindly advise.
Ans: Your story does not show failure.
It shows persistence, effort, and desire to improve.

Most people give up.
You didn’t.
That means you will succeed — but with the right method, not the old one.

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My married ex still texts me for comfort. Because of him, I am unable to move on. He makes me feel guilty by saying he got married out of family pressure. His dad is a cardiac patient and mom is being treated for cancer. He comforts me by saying he will get separated soon and we will get married because he only loves me. We have been in a relationship for 14 years and despite everything we tried, his parents refused to accept me, so he chose to get married to someone who understands our situation. I don't know when he will separate from his wife. She knows about us too but she comes from a traditional family. She also confirmed there is no physical intimacy between them. I trust him, but is it worth losing my youth for him? Honestly, I am worried and very confused.
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I understand how difficult it is to let go of a relationship you have built from scratch, but is it really how you want to continue? It really seems to be going nowhere. His parents are already in bad health and he married someone else for their happiness. Does it seem like he will be able to leave her? So many people’s happiness and lives depend on this one decision. I think it’s about time you and your BF have a clear conversation about the same. If he can’t give a proper timeline, please try to understand his situation. But also make sure he understands yours and maybe rethink this equation. It really isn’t healthy. You deserve a love you can have wholly, and not just in pieces, and in the shadows.

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