Dear Ravi Why are some people so rude and dating apps? If someone doesn't like you, why do they have to make you feel bad about it? Is there any way to deal with this?

Ans: It's never a pleasant experience when someone dislikes or hates us. However, it's important to understand that we can't control how others feel about us. It's a normal part of life to have people who don't like us or with whom we don't get along. Here are a few things you can do if someone hates you:

Try to understand the reason: If someone hates you, try to understand why. Sometimes, people's hatred stems from misunderstandings or miscommunications. Other times, it may be because of something you said or did. Once you understand the reason, you can try to address it.

Be kind: Even if someone hates you, try to be kind and respectful to them. This can help defuse the situation and potentially change their perception of you.

Focus on positive relationships: It's easy to get caught up in negative relationships, but it's important to focus on the positive ones in your life. Spend time with people who support and care about you.

Set boundaries: If someone's hatred is impacting your mental health and well-being, it may be necessary to set boundaries. This could mean limiting contact with that person or ending the relationship altogether.

Work on yourself: Finally, it's important to focus on your own personal growth and development. Work on building your self-esteem, confidence, and resilience so that you're better equipped to deal with challenging situations.

Remember, it's not always possible to change someone's perception of you, but you can control how you respond to the situation.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
I understand you are in pain. But since she is not willing to be in a relationship with you, I don't think it's a good idea to pursue her anymore. She might have valid reasons for the breakup- for instance, you already mentioned that her parents are against the relationship. It isn't easy to go against parent's wishes. Or she simply has grown out of the relationship. Either way, I would advice you to stop pursuing her and trying to convince someone who has made up her mind. It isn't fair to either one of you. Don't you think you deserve someone who'd choose you? Think about it.

Best Wishes.

Ans: Dear Sanu,
Please do not make any commitments without meeting this guy and his family in person. He can be a scammer or someone looking for a casual fling. Be careful.

Best Wishes.