Sir, I am single earning mother aged 54 years government job earning take home salary 1.20 lacs. Son 24 years studying. He will take another two years for completion. I am having a total loan of 35 lacs i.e personal loan and home loan. Took a personal loan for puchase of land. I feel I made a mistake by taking huge loan and paying emi. Is my decision right or I should not have opted for taking loan. Rather I should have invested. At present I don't have any savings. But I will get a good amount of pension. Is my decision right
Ans: You are a single mother, 54 years old, working in a government job, and earning Rs. 1.20 lakhs take-home every month. You are managing your son’s education and a Rs. 35 lakh loan that includes a personal loan for land purchase and a home loan. You have no savings currently but are expecting a decent pension.
This shows your strong commitment and sense of responsibility. You have already supported your child up to age 24. That is a great achievement.
Let us go step-by-step and assess your current situation fully, and work on how to improve it.
Income and Expense Structure
You earn Rs. 1.20 lakhs per month. This is a stable government salary.
A part of this goes to EMI. Remaining is spent on household and child’s needs.
You currently have no savings. This puts some stress on your financial safety.
You will have a good pension. That is a major strength.
Loan Analysis
You have a total loan of Rs. 35 lakhs. This includes a personal loan and a home loan.
Personal loans come with high interest. This can affect your cash flow.
Using personal loans for land purchase is not ideal. Land does not give regular income.
But the decision is already made. So now, focus on the next best steps.
Your loan is not a failure. It is a learning. You acted for your family.
What You Can Do Now
Let us plan from a 360-degree perspective. We will try to improve your financial life step by step.
1. Expense Management and Budgeting
List your monthly fixed expenses, EMI, household costs, and child-related costs.
Find areas to reduce or control expenses. Even Rs. 5,000 per month saving helps.
Avoid impulsive expenses. Say no to non-urgent purchases.
Build a clear budget and track it monthly.
Use a simple notebook or app to write down expenses.
2. Emergency Fund Creation
This is your first priority before investing.
Start saving Rs. 3,000 to Rs. 5,000 per month if possible.
Build an emergency fund equal to at least 3 to 6 months of monthly expenses.
Keep this fund in a liquid form. Use savings account or low-risk instruments.
Never touch this fund for regular expenses.
3. Loan Repayment Strategy
Focus on clearing the personal loan first. It has higher interest.
Do not try to pre-close the home loan unless cash flow allows.
Consider discussing with your bank if a restructuring option is possible.
If you get any bonus or arrears, use it for part pre-payment.
Never miss any EMI. Your credit score should stay strong.
4. Investment Planning
Once emergency fund is ready, and loan EMI is manageable, start investing small amounts.
Start SIPs in mutual funds through regular plans using an experienced MFD who works with a CFP.
Do not choose direct plans. They may seem cheaper but come with no guidance or help.
Direct plan investors miss rebalancing and timely action during market ups and downs.
Regular plans through MFDs give you advice, access to portfolio review, and strategy.
Also, avoid index funds. They copy the market. But they don’t manage risk in bad times.
Actively managed funds by professionals aim to protect value in market falls.
Invest slowly and steadily. Focus on long-term compounding.
Start with Rs. 3,000 to Rs. 5,000 SIP once emergency fund is ready.
5. Child’s Education Planning
Your son is 24 years old. He will complete studies in 2 years.
Until then, he is financially dependent. Plan your expenses around this timeline.
Once he starts earning, your monthly cost burden will reduce.
Encourage him to take responsibility for small costs soon.
Share your situation honestly with him. He will understand.
6. Retirement and Pension Planning
You are nearing retirement in a few years. So building post-retirement safety is key.
Your government pension is a great advantage. It gives income for life.
Even after pension starts, keep investing part of it in mutual funds.
Avoid traditional insurance-based investments. They offer low returns.
If you hold any ULIP or traditional endowment policy, review and consider surrendering.
Shift the surrendered amount into mutual funds in a staggered way.
Never buy products that promise returns with insurance. They do not beat inflation.
7. Insurance Protection
Ensure you have a term life insurance policy until your son becomes independent.
If not, take one now. Term plan is low-cost and gives high cover.
Once your son becomes financially independent, you may not need life insurance.
Maintain your health insurance even after retirement. Renew it without break.
Ensure the policy has enough sum insured. Top-up if needed.
8. Future Asset Management
Once your loans are cleared and pension starts, shift focus to asset creation.
Monthly SIPs should continue even after retirement. This keeps your money growing.
Use a mix of large-cap, flexi-cap, and hybrid mutual funds.
Review your portfolio once a year with a CFP.
Invest with goal-based approach. Short-term needs in safe options. Long-term goals in equity.
Do not chase high returns. Focus on balance between safety and growth.
9. Legal and Estate Planning
Make a simple Will. Mention your assets and your son as nominee or heir.
Ensure your bank accounts, insurance, and investments have proper nominations.
This helps in smooth transfer and avoids future disputes.
10. Emotional and Mental Peace
Money issues can feel heavy. But you have already done a lot.
Be kind to yourself. You have raised your son with full commitment.
Every step from now should be calm and planned.
You don’t need to compare with others. Your life is unique.
Even small savings from now can grow big in few years.
Finally
You have taken a bold step in raising a child single-handedly while handling job and loans. That alone shows your strength. While taking a personal loan for land may not have been ideal, your intent was to secure the future. Do not feel regret. Use the lessons and focus on financial recovery.
Start with small consistent savings. Reduce personal loan burden first. Avoid new debt. Begin SIPs once emergency fund is ready. Use only actively managed mutual funds via regular plans with a certified mutual fund distributor who works with a CFP. Build your confidence again.
Remember, it’s not too late. Financial peace is still possible. Plan, act, and stay steady.
Best Regards,
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,
www.holisticinvestment.in
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