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vsdeshpande Question by vsdeshpande on Mar 27, 2023Hindi
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I met a widow woman on marriage portal.After my visit to her and her visit to my house I gave her proposal to marry me but after receiving my prposal she went in silence zone I asked her but she is ignoring me what should I do

Ans: Dear VS,
If you are still in doubt, think about why she is ignoring you. Also, do understand that being a widow, she might have had reservations with you moving fast on this. It might have scared her. So, if you do message her again (as the last attempt), do apologize for jumping in and assuming that she was also ready to receive your proposal. Your genuine apology might turn things around and it will be easy for her not to slot you as someone she needs to be wary of.
Is she still ignores this plea, kindly move on and do not waste any more time pursuing her.

All the best!

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Hi Anu, I’m 45 male and my wife is 44, we have been separated due to opinion difference through court she filed three cases on me , after that she with draw all cases by taking Alumni, since two years I have been wishing her on her birthday, recently two months back I wished on her birth we have small conversation asked about ourselves , like did I get married to other women or did she got married to other man. After that conversation she started talking , daily we chat looking at this I put a proposal saying that if she is willing to come back and start our life she is open for it. But she says she does not have any intension of getting married to any one she want to stay alone for life long. Sometimes she shows so much love and affection caring sometimes she completely ignore me as if am a stranger, I’m unable to judge her mood strings day by day my stress levels are going high could not control my emotions and anger I express it on any one. Please do suggest shall I be optimist and wait for some more years and its better to leave her on her own path.
Ans: Dear Prasanna,
For the time being, it appears that the separation is helping the two of you reconnect at a better level than when you stayed together.
It is a good thing as it will patch up wedges and also teach you both to appreciate one another and respect your differences.
I suggest that you let this be for a while now till it reaches a place where the two of you are cordial with one another and set aside the animosity and quell the ego. Then you can put your proposal forth to her of moving back together. She may want it or may prefer the status quo (like she has mentioned to you that she wants to stay alone). Either case, once a connection is filled with love that it is meant to, there not be a definite label or construct to that connection. So, wait for that suitable time to know where her mind is...till then enjoy the time together as a 'dating phase' and relish the moments.

All the best!

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