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Paediatrician - Answered on Jan 30, 2023

Dr Deepa Suvarna is a practising paediatrician with 25 years of experience. She completed her MD in paediatrics from the TN Medical College and BYL Nair Hospital, MBBS from the King Edward Memorial Hospital and Seth Gordhandas Sunderdas Medical College and diploma in child health from the College of Physicians and Surgeons.... more
Asked by Anonymous - Jan 30, 2023Hindi
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Deepaji, Is it legally allowed to marry my grandfather's sister's daughter's daughter? Will that affect our child's health?

Ans: I can't comment on the legal implications but consanguineous marriages have greater chances of genetic diseases being transmitted.
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