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Relationships Expert - Answered on Nov 09, 2021
Dear Love Guru,
My husband is always travelling for work.
Our sex life is dull.
I spend more time with my gym instructor than my husband.
I think I am in love with him and love his company and his body.
I have not expressed it.
But I make excuses to spend time with him.
I need him.
My husband is of not much support.
I don’t have to leave my marriage if I could have J as my friend.
Platonic friend.
Is that wrong?
Regards,
Confused
Dear Confused,
While that may sound like an ideal situation, that's not quite how a marriage works -- with a bit on the side!
And people who travel and are away from their partners tend to miss them enough that the sex is good and frequent when they do get together. So something really seems amiss here.
Tell me, do you love your husband?
If that is the case, work on the sex. Tell him how you feel (not about the gym instructor (!), about the lack of excitement). Become a little adventurous in the bedroom, or get counselling, if need be.
If, on the other hand, you're only married because it's convenient, well, I think it's only a matter of time before you cheat on your husband, if not with this gym guy, then with the next.
And I don't think he deserves that, do you?
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