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Land Dispute Neighbor Encroachment: Seeking Help (Srinivasan, Chennai)

Ramalingam Kalirajan |6558 Answers |Ask -Follow

Mutual Funds, Financial Planning Expert - Answered on Sep 05, 2024

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Question by N on Sep 05, 2024Hindi

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Hi! My name is Srinivasan and I had purchased a plot measuring 2990 sq.ct in Chennai suburb in 2013. I did not fence it. In 2015 I got a Patta also. Panchami vacant land is situated at the rear end of my plot In 2018/2019 a neighbour at the rear end of the plot seem to have encroached a small portion of my land and constructed a boundary wall. He claims that he has not encroached my land. But, I doubt. I was away and couldn't take any action. Now, I have applied for a survey of land and boundary marking through TNREGINET and awaiting for their visit. I have decided to raise a boundary wall. Pl let me know the remedial actions to be taken if found in the survey that the neighbour has really encroached upon my land Thanks

Ans: If the survey confirms that your neighbor has encroached on your land, here are the steps you can take:

Gather all documents: Ensure you have your sale deed, Patta, survey report, and any other legal documents to prove ownership.

Legal Notice: Send a legal notice to your neighbor, along with evidence of the encroachment, demanding removal of the boundary wall.

Talk to Local Authorities: Approach the local Tahsildar or revenue authorities with your documents and survey report. They can assist in resolving boundary disputes.

File a Police Complaint: If the neighbor refuses to cooperate, file a police complaint for trespassing and illegal encroachment.

Civil Suit: As a last resort, file a civil suit in the court to reclaim your encroached land.

Consult a lawyer specializing in property disputes to guide you through the process.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

www.holisticinvestment.in

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Ans: I'm sorry to hear about your experience with the mediator, and it sounds like a frustrating situation. Here are some options you can consider to recover your money:
1. Legal Action: You can consider taking legal action against the mediator to recover your money. This may involve filing a civil lawsuit for breach of contract or fraud. Consult with a lawyer who specializes in property disputes to understand your legal rights and options.
2. Mediation or Arbitration: Before pursuing litigation, you may want to explore options for mediation or arbitration. This involves a neutral third party helping you and the mediator reach a resolution outside of court. It can be a faster and more cost-effective way to resolve disputes.
3. Demand Letter: Sending a formal demand letter to the mediator may prompt them to take action to resolve the issue. The letter should outline the details of the agreement, the amount owed, and a deadline for payment. Keep a copy of the letter for your records.
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5. Reporting to Authorities: If you believe the mediator engaged in fraudulent or illegal activities, you may consider reporting them to the appropriate authorities, such as the police or consumer protection agency.
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I am a seniior citizen, husbsnd & wife residing in own house and taking care of siper cirizen (90 yrs) My neibour taken up extension of the building by adding 2 more floors to his existing gf + ff units. Site measuring 30'× 26' ( divided portion of 30'× 53 ' Only 3' to 4' gap is there betwen the stricture now cinstruction & our portion exposing us of falling out of contruction materials on us and Parked vehicle & putting us in lot of risk and axiety . The neibouring owner and the The contractorhas provided side protection partially & not taken safety measures to prevent falling if constn material which would cause damger to us. Reminders to them to provide sufficient protection & safety measures has fallen on deat ears. They are even adament. Suggest a best way to resolve the issue without affecting the relationship with each. other afterall we neibours.

Ans: I understand the concern you're facing with the construction activity next door and the potential risk it poses to your safety and property. It's indeed a challenging situation, especially when dealing with neighbors.

Here are some steps you can consider to address the issue without straining your relationship:

Open Communication: Initiate a conversation with your neighbor in a calm and respectful manner. Express your concerns about the safety hazards caused by the ongoing construction activity. Approach the conversation with empathy and understanding, acknowledging that you both share the same neighborhood.
Collaborative Solutions: Instead of placing blame, focus on finding collaborative solutions that ensure the safety and well-being of both parties. Propose practical measures such as installing additional safety barriers or netting to prevent debris from falling onto your property.
Seek Mediation: If direct communication doesn't yield positive results, consider involving a neutral third party, such as a community leader or mediator, to facilitate a constructive dialogue between you and your neighbor. Mediation can help find mutually acceptable solutions while preserving the relationship.
Legal Options: As a last resort, you may explore legal options to address the safety concerns if all attempts at resolution fail. Consult with a legal expert to understand your rights and options under local laws and regulations governing construction activities and property disputes.
Remember, the goal is to resolve the issue amicably while safeguarding your safety and well-being. Maintaining a positive relationship with your neighbor is essential for a harmonious neighborhood environment.

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Asked by Anonymous - Sep 05, 2024Hindi

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Sir My husband had purchased a land measuring 3600 sq ft approx. for an amount of Rs 16.00 lakhs with an assurance that it will be developed into a gated community. However, 5 years since no developmental work has started yet. Further the land was also not registered. Now when we are pressing the broker to return the principal amount at least he has stopped taking calls. What can we do now Sir or what are the legal procedures we can follow to get back the paid amount with appreciation ? Hope to get an answer soon. Thanking you in anticipation

Ans: I'm sorry to hear about this situation. Here’s what you can do to address it:

Send a Legal Notice: Consult a lawyer and send a formal legal notice to the broker, asking for a refund of the amount paid. Clearly state that no development has occurred and that the land wasn’t registered in your name.

File a Police Complaint: If the broker continues to be unresponsive, file a police complaint for fraud and cheating under Section 420 of the Indian Penal Code (IPC).

Consumer Court: You can approach the Consumer Court if you have evidence (receipts, agreements) showing the transaction and non-delivery of services. The Consumer Protection Act provides recourse for cases of deficiency in service.

RERA (Real Estate Regulatory Authority): If the project is registered with RERA, file a complaint with the authority for recovery of the amount along with interest for non-fulfillment of the agreement.

Civil Suit: You can file a civil suit for recovery of the amount along with compensation for mental agony and financial loss.

Best to act quickly to avoid further delays.

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Hi Sir/Maam, I'm currently working in a US based company since 1.5 years and my employers says that they don't have PF law in US so PF will not be deducted from my salary so my PF account is inactive since 1.5 years. UAN portal shows that my bank details aren't updated so I entered the bank details and submitted in UAN portal. This has to be now approved by my previous employer as my current employer has not created a PF account. However, I had left my previous organization after a fight with my boss so it was not a smooth exit and I didn't even serve the notice period there. I just dropped my resignation email and walked out of the office on the same day. Now my previous employer has not approved my bank KYC details since 3 months and I even cannot reach out to them, as my exit from there was very unpleasant. PF office is saying that they can't do anything from their end and it has to be approved by my previous employer but I can't go back to them requesting to approve. Please suggest me how can I withdraw my PF amount?

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You may try to talk to the HR people at your previous organisation.

Regret for the improper exit and try to see if you can make things work.

Sorting out things amicably is suitable option for both.

Else you may lodge a grievance on EPFO grievance management portal EPFiGMS.

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You will get your EPF money no doubt about it.

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Ans: Hello;

Since NPS will be available only after you reach 60 and no info. about any rental income from real estate investment hence both are kept out of our purview.

1.Higher education goals for children typically start after 12th so we have 6 to 8 years for kid's education financial goal(4 Cr) attainment.

I have split it in two tranches:
A. 2 Cr after 6 years
B. 2 Cr after 8 years

For achieving target A following will work:
Direct stocks corpus of 80 L will grow into a sum of 1.5 Cr after 6 years. (Moderate return of 11% assumed)

PPF corpus and contributions will grow into a sum of 50 L+ after 5 years block when you may withdraw this corpus towards this goal. (6.9% return considered)

So 1.5 + 0.5=2 Cr

For fulfilling target B following will work:
MF corpus of 50 L will grow into a sum of 1.15 Cr after 8 years. (11% return considered)

50% of SSY corpus eligible for withdrawal expected to be around 27.85 L. (8% return assumed)

Direct stock monthly sip of 20 K will grow into a sum of 30.85 L in 8 years.(11% return considered)

Gold corpus of 14 L will grow into a sum of 24.05 L. (7% growth assumed)

So 1.15+27.85+30.85+24.05~~2 Cr

2. Target for Marriage of offspring:
1 Cr.
3. Retirement pension: 4 L per month
13 years from now.
Investible surplus left after all monthly investments utilized for fulfilling above targets should be immediately redirected to monthly SIPs in mutual funds. That includes 20 K direct stock sip, 12.5 K/pm SSY investment after 8 years from now and 12.5 K/pm PPF investment 5 years from now.

Also the 50 K getting free from loan EMI after 5 years should be converted into a mutual fund SIP.

After accounting for monthly expenses and monthly investments, from the balance 80 K, I would suggest you to deploy 50 K into MF sip since it will help in target achievement.

So summarily 12.5 K/8 yr, 12.5 K/5 yr, 20 K/5 yr, 50 K/8 yr and 250 K/13 yr will yield you a comprehensive corpus of 9.89 Cr. Add balance 50% SSY corpus of 27.5 L to this and your total corpus comes to 10.16 Cr. (MF returns assumed at a modest 11%)

Earmark 1 Cr for offspring wedding as envisaged.

Net retirement corpus will be 9.16 Cr. An immediate annuity at 6% will yield you a monthly income of 4.58 L from the age of 55 as planned.

You may use commutable corpus of NPS(60%) to buy your house. While NPS annuity portion(40%) may yield you a delta per month so as to have post tax income of 4 L per month.

This looks achievable because you have managed your finances and investments outstandingly well.

I discourage people to take direct stocks exposure especially when they are nearing the retirement but if you have the knowledge and temperament you may dabble into it subject to some minimum amount earmarked as risk capital.

I am sure you have adequate insurance cover for life and health.

Kudos again to your meticulous fiscal planning and execution.

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I am 48 yrs working women and want to invest in SIP.Can you guide me where n how much should i invest.I can spare 10000 p.m in th nameof my minor son age 9 yrs.

Ans: Hello;

You may consider investing in a aggressive hybrid (equity oriented) mutual fund.

Most solution oriented mutual funds for children are of this type. Only point to be noted about these children gift funds is that they have mandatory 5 year lock-in.

If you do a monthly sip of 10 K in a fund of this type say for eg. ICICI equity and debt fund(Growth) (No lock-in here) then you may expect to have a corpus of 16.92 L after 8 years. (A modest return of 13% is assumed)

If you are ok with 5 yr lock-in then you may consider investing in HDFC Children's gift fund.

The calculation will remain same.

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Hi Jinal ji, I am 41 years old and want to calculate my retirement corpus. My monthly expenditure is 50K per month and I plan to retire at an age of 55 years. The life expectancy in my family is about 80 years. Pls help me calculate my retirement corpus. It will be kind of you to provide the calculations so that I can try out various possible scenarios by myself. Thanks in advance.

Ans: Hello;

Your current monthly expenses of
50 K would rise to 1.13 L in 14 years time by the time you retire.(6% inflation considered)

Therefore you would need a retirement corpus of 4.5 Cr invested in an equity savings type mutual fund(Moderate risk)

You may do an SWP at the rate of 3% which will yield you monthly income of around 1.13 L(Inflation adjusted expenses).

The corpus will keep on growing at a net rate of 6% after deducting 3% towards SWP.(A modest return of 9% pa is assumed from equity savings type fund).

After 25 years you will have a corpus of 19.82 Cr, after accounting for SWP withdrawals of 7.86 Cr spread over 25 years.

It will still yield monthly payout of 4.95 L to cover inflation indexed expenses at the age of 80 years for you.

You can use many online tools available for retirement planning to do your various calculations, as desired.

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Happy Investing!!

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Ans: Dear Santosh,
You have not shared whether the allegations your wife made on you are true or not. Based on that, the way your lawyer can take up the case will change. So, seek a lawyer and tell him/her your entire story and proceed accordingly.
But, I would also suggest that you meet with your wife once to sort out misunderstandings if any and request her if the two of you can reconcile differences.

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Asked by Anonymous - Oct 10, 2024

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Ans: Dear Anonymous,
No, you are not thinking right at all...This man is all RED FLAGS...
Are you actually thinking of spending one year with a person who physically abuses you? Seriously?
And then you expect him to agree to that divorce without any fuss? What world are you in? No compromises on your life please...
Be wise and protect yourself...

All the best!
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