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Milind Vadjikar is an independent MF distributor registered with Association of Mutual Funds in India (AMFI) and a retirement financial planning advisor registered with Pension Fund Regulatory and Development Authority (PFRDA).
He has a mechanical engineering degree from Government Engineering College, Sambhajinagar, and an MBA in international business from the Symbiosis Institute of Business Management, Pune.
With over 16 years of experience in stock investments, and over six year experience in investment guidance and support, he believes that balanced asset allocation and goal-focused disciplined investing is the key to achieving investor goals.... more
Nikhil Question by Nikhil on Oct 08, 2024Hindi
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Im 36 yrs old and into business. The market is getting volatile & future seems bleak. Only the big players doing volume busienss will survive & compete in the long run. Im looking to invest in Mutual funds & live on the returns i get for my livelihood. Is it safe to trust & invest in Mutual funds for life. How much do i need to invest in SWP to withdraw ?3 lakhs monthly income. Please give me a simple picture of how to plan & go forward. Do you think im doing the right thing ?

Ans: Hello;

You will need a minimum corpus of 10.5 Cr to be invested in Equity Savings Fund and do a 5% SWP to earn income of Rs. 3 L per month (post tax).

Your current age is 36, considering 76 as life expectancy you will need to keep yourself in some activity even if have resources to sustain yourselves for this long tenure of 40 years.

If the current business is not working think about taking up some other business or even consider taking up a job somewhere to learn new skills, acquire knowledge so that you can start some business later.

As the saying goes "empty mind is devil's workshop". Keeping yourself engaged in income generating activities is important not just for your financial well-being but also for your physical and mental fitness.

Do invest for your retirement as much as you feel is sufficient but don't give working so early atleast till 50 would be my advice to you.

Ultimately it is your decision.

All the best!!

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Hi, I'm 36 years old. I live in hyderabad with wife and 2 kids . For their education and post retirement life ( planning to retire at the age of 55) , I stared investing in mutual funds from last 2 years . Current investment is 6.2L in below funds- 1.Axis small cap 2.parag parikh flexi cap. 3.Quant Absolute growth fund 10k in each per month for now. Planning to increase 10% each year. Am I going in right direction for my financial needs? Please suggest improvements based on my needs.
Ans: That's a great start to your investment journey! Starting to invest for your children's education and your retirement at 36 shows responsibility. Let's discuss your plan and suggest some improvements:

1. Investing for Goals!

Smart Thinking! Planning for your children's education and your retirement through SIPs in Mutual Funds is a smart approach. Actively managed funds like these have fund managers who try to outperform the market by picking stocks they believe will grow.

Long-Term Goals: Your investment horizon for both your children's education (assuming they are young) and your retirement (19 years) is good for long-term wealth creation.

2. Analyzing Your Portfolio:

Small Cap Focus: Having a majority of your investment in a Small Cap Fund might be a bit risky. Small Caps can be more volatile than other market capitalizations.

Diversification Matters: Consider adding a Large Cap or Mid Cap Fund for better diversification across different market segments.

3. Planning for Education Costs:

Cost of Education: Education costs can rise significantly. Review the potential cost of education closer to the time and adjust your investments if needed.

Early Start is Key! Starting early allows for compounding to work its magic. You're on the right track!

4. Planning for Retirement:

Consider Debt Funds: As you approach retirement, consider adding Debt Funds to your portfolio to provide stability and regular income.

Review and Rebalance: A Certified Financial Planner (CFP) can review your portfolio periodically and suggest adjustments to keep you on track for your retirement goals.

Here's the key takeaway: You've made a great start! Consider diversifying your portfolio, reviewing education costs closer to the time, and adding Debt Funds for retirement. Consulting a CFP can help you fine-tune your plan and achieve your financial goals.

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Asked by Anonymous - Mar 12, 2025Hindi
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Hello Sir, I am 46. Unemployed due to health reasons. I have 28 lakhs i want to invest in SWP . I need 35000 monthly. How long do I have before my fund runs out? How should I invest to make the most of it? I want my funds to appreciate as well to be atleast propionate to my need of 35000. Given- if i invest in lumpsum than I get higher number of units and if i take the SIP route it can negate the market volatility. Looking at the current market scanerio i believe it may take couple of years to see proper returns. I was also thinking of pooling the entire corpus in Aggressive debt funds and then do a SIP to an actively managed equity fund. Under these circumstances please provide fund names also. Thanks in advance.
Ans: You are 46 and unemployed due to health reasons. You need Rs 35,000 per month from your investments. Your goal is to make your funds last longer while allowing growth.

Let us analyse your options and create a plan.

Assessing Your Requirement
You need Rs 4.2 lakh per year (Rs 35,000 x 12 months).

Your corpus is Rs 28 lakh.

If you withdraw Rs 4.2 lakh annually without growth, your funds will last less than 7 years.

You need growth to sustain withdrawals for a longer period.

Challenges with a High SWP Rate
A SWP of 15% per year (Rs 4.2 lakh from Rs 28 lakh) is too high.

Safe withdrawal rates are usually 4-6% per year.

A high withdrawal rate will deplete your corpus fast.

Investment Strategy for SWP
You need a mix of equity and debt to balance growth and stability.

Step 1: Allocate Corpus Wisely
Equity (50%): Invest for growth.
Debt (50%): Keep funds for the next 5-6 years of withdrawals.
This approach helps maintain stability while allowing long-term appreciation.

Step 2: SWP from Debt Funds
Start your SWP from debt funds to avoid withdrawing from volatile equity investments.

Debt funds provide stability and minimise short-term risk.

This ensures your equity investments have time to grow.

Step 3: Systematic Transfer to Equity
Keep your equity allocation in a flexi-cap or multi-cap fund for diversification.

Invest in a systematic transfer plan (STP) from a debt fund to an equity fund.

This reduces market timing risk and balances volatility.

Expected Corpus Longevity
If your portfolio grows at 8-10% annually, your funds may last 10-12 years.

If the market performs well, your funds may last longer.

A lower withdrawal rate will further extend sustainability.

Alternative Options to Sustain Your Corpus
Reduce withdrawals: If possible, lower monthly expenses to Rs 25,000-30,000.

Part-time income: If health permits, explore work-from-home or passive income options.

Medical emergency fund: Keep at least Rs 2 lakh aside for medical needs.

Review investments: Rebalance every year to maintain growth and stability.

Final Insights
Your current withdrawal rate is high.

A balanced equity-debt approach can extend the longevity of your corpus.

Use SWP from debt funds and STP to equity for better returns.

Monitor the portfolio regularly to ensure sustainability.

If possible, reduce withdrawals slightly to make the corpus last longer.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP

Chief Financial Planner,

www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment

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Mutual Funds, Financial Planning Expert - Answered on Jun 21, 2025

Asked by Anonymous - Jun 03, 2025Hindi
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Hi. I am currently 32 years old, and I used to earn 35k per month. I have been investing in mutual funds since September 2023. These are the funds below: Tata Small Cap Fund (Investing since Sep 2023, started with 1000 rs and increased to 1500 from Oct 2024. I had to skip a payment in April 2025) Parag Parik Flexi Cap Fund (Investing since October 2023. Started with 1500 and going on. I skipped two payments in November 2023 & April 2025) Motilal Oswalt Midcap Fund (Started investing with 1000 from Jan 2024 and increased it to 1500 from March 2025. Here also, I had to skip one payment in April 2025) Currently, I have a total corpus of 75017 rupees and an XIRR of 13.26% as of 3/6/25. The problem is that I don't have a job at the moment, and I am looking for one. My question is: 1) whether my investment is in the right direction, as I plan to do it for 5-10 years. 2) Should I continue my SIP or switch to SWP
Ans: You have started early and chosen equity mutual funds, which is praiseworthy. Let us now evaluate your situation and give you a 360-degree perspective.

Investment Direction: Is It Right?
You are just 32 years old. Starting mutual fund SIPs at this age is good.
You selected small cap, mid cap, and flexi cap categories. These are equity-heavy.
You are investing with a 5 to 10-year view. That matches the nature of these funds.

Here’s a simple evaluation:

Small cap and mid cap funds are volatile but may give good growth over 7+ years.

Flexi cap brings balance by spreading across large, mid, and small companies.

Skipping SIPs in between is okay if your income was uncertain. Don’t feel guilty.

Your XIRR of 13.26% in the short term shows that you selected reasonably well.

So yes, overall, you are moving in the right direction.

But you can optimise a few things.

Areas You Can Improve
You have chosen direct mutual funds. That means no expert is guiding you.

Direct funds look cheap but they are not always better for long-term investors.

With regular funds, a Mutual Fund Distributor (MFD) with CFP can guide better.

Here’s why regular funds with a Certified Financial Planner help:

You get proper fund selection based on risk profile and goals.

Periodic review is done. Changes are suggested during market cycles.

Mistakes like stopping SIPs in panic or staying in poor funds can be avoided.

You get behaviour management, which is key to long-term success.

Direct funds give no such handholding. It may look cost-saving but results in poor discipline.

So, consider moving from direct to regular funds with help from a CFP-backed MFD.

Should You Continue SIP or Shift to SWP?
You asked if you should switch from SIP to SWP.
Let us understand what these are and whether it suits you.

SIP is for investing. SWP is for withdrawing.
SWP is not suitable unless you are retired or need monthly income.

Right now:

You are unemployed but not retired.

Your goal is long-term wealth building.

You don’t need income from mutual funds.

So, no, switching to SWP is not advisable now.
Doing so will reduce your invested corpus early and harm compounding.

Instead, here is what you can do:

Pause SIPs temporarily if you have no income.

Resume SIPs once you get a new job or income source.

Never withdraw from your mutual funds unless extremely urgent.

You are still young. Your priority should be capital accumulation, not withdrawal.

What to Do During Unemployment?
This is a difficult phase. But treat it as temporary.
You can take the following financial steps during this time:

Keep at least 4 months of expenses in a savings account.

If you don’t have that, redeem only what is essential from MFs.

Avoid credit card loans or personal loans.

Try freelancing or gig work until a job is found.

Reduce unnecessary expenses like OTT, travel, gadgets, etc.

Also, track your expenses weekly.
Small savings add up and keep your corpus intact.

Fund Categories – Are They Suitable for You?
Let us now briefly assess the fund types you selected.

Small Cap Fund

High return potential. But risky.

Stay invested for minimum 7 years.

Don’t put more than 25% of your portfolio here.

Mid Cap Fund

Balanced between risk and return.

Needs minimum 5 years to perform well.

Can form 25-30% of your portfolio.

Flexi Cap Fund

Good as core holding.

More stable than small/mid caps.

Can form 40-50% of your portfolio.

If you continue SIPs once you’re back on your feet, use this mix as a base.
But take guidance from a Certified Financial Planner for selection.

Important Suggestions to Strengthen Your Plan
To give you a complete 360-degree perspective, here are key points:

Avoid investing more in small cap funds now. Wait until you earn again.

Review your fund performance every 12 months. Avoid emotional changes.

Start an emergency fund as soon as income resumes. Keep Rs. 50,000 to Rs. 1 lakh.

Invest in regular funds via a qualified MFD backed by CFP. This helps consistency.

Protect your goals. Don’t redeem MF unless necessary.

Stay invested for 7–10 years minimum. That’s how wealth is created.

If you have any LIC policies, ULIPs or endowment plans, re-assess them.
If they are investment-cum-insurance plans, consider surrendering and moving to mutual funds.

But do this only after you resume earning.
Also, ensure you have a basic term insurance and health insurance in place.

Why Not Index Funds?
You didn’t mention index funds, but let’s give clarity here.
Many people are misled into choosing index funds thinking they are safer or cheaper.

But index funds have limitations:

They simply copy the index. No chance to beat it.

They invest in stocks regardless of valuation.

During market crashes, they fall with the market.

They don’t protect your downside.

There is no expert managing your fund.

They ignore emerging companies and themes.

Actively managed mutual funds are better because:

They select quality stocks, not just any stock.

They avoid bad sectors or weak stocks.

They aim to beat the benchmark, not copy it.

They give long-term alpha through smart decisions.

A skilled fund manager brings experience to your money.

So, stay away from index funds. Stick to well-managed active mutual funds through regular plans.

Final Insights
You are on the right track. Your age, fund choices, and mindset are good.
But don’t panic due to temporary setbacks.

Here’s what you should focus on:

Continue your SIPs once your job returns.

Avoid SWP unless you are truly in need.

Shift to regular plans through a Certified Financial Planner.

Keep a long-term view always.

Maintain an emergency fund before resuming SIPs.

Review once a year, not every month.

Remember, wealth building is a marathon. Not a 100-metre sprint.
Stick to a solid plan and take expert help wherever needed.

Best Regards,
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,
www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment

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Ans: Dear Murari,
I don't understand how your parents can sign the papers by which you are separated from your wife.
One thing is clear, you seem to take no effort in making major decisions of your life. Marriage, work...this concerns you and you need to STEP UP and take decisions; whether the decisions are favorable or not is something you will learn over a period of time.
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Asked by Anonymous - Dec 16, 2025Hindi
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Dear Naveen sir, I am 48 year having privet Job. I have started investment from 2017, current value of investment is 82L and having monthly 50K SIP as below. My goal to have 2.5Cr corpus at the age of 58. Please advice... 1. Nippon India small cap -Growth Rs 5,000 2. Sundaram Mid Cap fund Regular plan-Growth Rs 5,000 3. ICICI Prudential Small Cap- Growth Rs 10,000 4. ICICI Prudential Large Cap fund-Growth Rs 5,000 5. ICICI Prudential Balanced Adv. fund-Growth Rs 5,000 6. DSP Small Cap fund Regular Growth Rs 5,000 7. Nippn India Pharma Fund- Growth Rs 5,000 8. SBI focused Fund Regular plan- Growth Rs 5,000 9. SBI Dynamic Asset Allocation Active FoF-Regular-Growth Rs 5,000
Ans: Thank you for sharing the details clearly. Let me break this down calmly and practically.

Where you stand today
Age: 48
Investment start: 2017
Current portfolio value: approx ?82 lakh
Monthly SIP: ?50,000
Time to goal: 10 years
Target corpus: ?2.5 crore at age 58

First, the good news. With an ?82 lakh base already built, you are not starting late. You are already past the hardest part, which is accumulation.

Is the goal achievable?
Yes, it is achievable with discipline and some fine tuning.

If your existing ?82 lakh grows at a modest 11 percent for 10 years, it alone can become roughly ?2.3 crore.
Your ongoing SIP of ?50,000 per month, even at 10 to 11 percent, can add another ?1 crore plus over 10 years.

So mathematically, you are on track. The key question is risk balance and fund structure, not return chasing.

Review of your current SIP portfolio
Right now, your SIPs have:
• Heavy exposure to small cap funds
• Multiple funds from the same AMC
• One sector fund
• Very little clarity on core stability

Small caps give good returns, but at your age and goal timeline, too much concentration can increase volatility when you least want it.

What needs correction
Reduce small cap overload
You have three small cap funds plus one focused fund. That is aggressive. Keep one strong small cap fund, not three.

Avoid duplication
Multiple funds from the same AMC don’t add diversification. They increase overlap.

Sector fund allocation
Pharma fund is fine, but limit it to a smaller portion. Sector funds should never drive the portfolio.

Add a clear core
Large cap or flexi cap should be the backbone now. Stability matters more than excitement.

Suggested SIP structure (illustrative)
Out of ?50,000 monthly SIP:

• Large cap or Flexi cap: ?15,000
• Hybrid or Dynamic asset allocation: ?10,000
• Mid cap: ?10,000
• Small cap: ?10,000
• Sector or thematic (optional): ?5,000

This gives growth without sleepless nights.

Important next steps
• Gradually rebalance existing investments, do not exit everything at once
• Shift from Regular plans to Direct plans if possible (this alone improves returns)
• Review asset allocation every year, not returns
• From age 55 onward, slowly start moving part of equity gains to safer instruments

Final thought
Your goal of ?2.5 crore is realistic. You don’t need aggressive bets anymore. You need consistency, structure, and risk control.

If you want, I can:
• Rebuild this exact portfolio fund by fund
• Estimate year wise corpus growth
• Suggest a pre retirement safety strategy from age 55

Just tell me how deep you want to go.


Thank you for sharing your details so openly. Let me talk to you like I would to a friend, not in numbers first, but in reality.

You are 48, you started investing back in 2017, and today you’ve already built around ?82 lakh. That itself tells me one thing. You are disciplined and you stayed invested. That matters more than anything else.

Now about your goal of ?2.5 crore by 58. Honestly, this is not an unrealistic dream. In fact, you are closer than you think. With ten years still in hand and a steady ?50,000 SIP running, the foundation is already strong.

Looking at your SIP list, you’ve clearly leaned towards growth funds, especially small caps. That’s fine, and it probably helped you build this corpus so far. But as you move closer to your goal, the game slowly changes. It’s less about chasing the highest return and more about protecting what you’ve already built.

Right now, there’s a bit too much exposure to small caps and some overlap between funds. When markets do well, this feels great. But when they correct, the same portfolio can test your patience and peace of mind.

You don’t need to overhaul everything. Small adjustments are enough. Think of large cap or flexi cap funds as the steady engine of your portfolio. Mid caps and small caps should add growth, not dominate it. Sector funds like pharma are okay in small doses, but they shouldn’t drive your future.

If you balance things a little better, your existing ?82 lakh has a very good chance of compounding close to your target on its own. Your SIPs then become the safety margin, not the lifeline.

The most important part comes after 55. That’s when you slowly start moving some money to safer avenues so that a market fall doesn’t hit you right before retirement.

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one of my friend who is married from past 14 years having 2 kids (elder son 12 and daughter 8)...he was out of home deputed to site on project work by company for more than 4 months. During this period he did not visit the home but regularly available on call and in touch with his w... when he returned to home his wife was behavior was not normal as like earlier ... later he found out that his wife got involve with her college friend during this period ..... and they had physical 01 time during this period... now my best friend he is very caring and not able to forget this betrayed act by his wife... after all this he is not able to concentrate and focus on his work.. he love his wife so much and want to forgive her but how to handle this situation in decent way... he is not willing to divorce or parting his ways... request you to suggest some way out to get out of situation and lead a normal life as like earlier
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He loves her
He wants to forgive her
BUT
He is not able to forget what his wife has done
Sadly, both these work in opposite directions...
If he is willing to rebuild his marriage, he does not need to forget what his wife has done BUT he can work on how to process what she has done. This is difficult to do...but he will need to understand what happened, the reasons for it, if the wife is still interested in the marriage and if both are willing to work together towards the future. If this seems a bit difficult to work out by themselves, I suggest that they see an expert who can guide them aptly.

All the best!
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Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Please take him to a professional who can evaluate him. There are a lot of gaps in what you haev shared and a professional will be able to ask the right questions and be of better guidance to your son and your family.

All the best!
Anu Krishna
Mind Coach|NLP Trainer|Author
Drop in: www.unfear.io
Reach me: Facebook: anukrish07/ AND LinkedIn: anukrishna-joyofserving/

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