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My 18 Year Old Niece Wets The Bed: What Can We Do?

Dr Deepa Suvarna |171 Answers |Ask -Follow

Paediatrician - Answered on May 05, 2024

Dr Deepa Suvarna is a practising paediatrician with 25 years of experience. She completed her MD in paediatrics from the TN Medical College and BYL Nair Hospital, MBBS from the King Edward Memorial Hospital and Seth Gordhandas Sunderdas Medical College and diploma in child health from the College of Physicians and Surgeons.... more

Question by Ratikanta on Nov 06, 2023Hindi

Health

Dear Maam, My niece is 18 years old now, she urinates in bed till today. We realise that she is not being able to control the same as she always in deep sleep, however, it is always embarrassing for her. For this reason she does not go to any of our relatives home, we can not put her in hostel and force to shift to the city where she studies, giving us more financial burden to my sister. We want to know what is the reason for same and what are its remedies.

Ans: She needs to consult a urologist

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My Mother 73 yrs old is a physiatric patient from last 10 yrs. From last 2 months she started bed wetting at night. Day time no issues only at night she has issues, we started giving her diaper but she is removing or probably not using

Ans: Restrict her fluid intake after 7 pm
Only sips if needed After 8 pm totally avoid unless it is essential. This means her medication need to be given before 8 pm with optimum water.
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Dear madam, I have a daughter of 9 years age off late from last 3 months she started doing bathroom in bed at night , she is not in fear also we asked him many times the raeson or pain but she denys that she tells i dont come to now Kindly guide us

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Asked by Anonymous - Dec 22, 2025Hindi

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I am 34 years old, married, with no children yet, but we plan to start a family by the end of 2026. Our monthly household take-home income is 4.4 lakh. We have cumulative EMIs of 1.50 lakhs per month: (1) Home Loan (1 Cr Outstanding, 9 years left): 1.1 lacs per month, (2) Car Loan (8 lacs outstanding 4 years left): 25k per month (3) Personal Loan (4 years left) - 15k per month. Our investments include 50 lakh in stocks and mutual funds, and 30 lakh in PF. I have a term plan with cover till age 85, costing additional 1.3 lakh per year in premium for next 7 years. Me and my wife are covered by our employer for medical insurance, and our parents will also have PSU pension and medical cover after retirement. We spend around 1.2 lakh per month on household expenses in Gurgaon. We invest 1 lakh monthly having 20-90 split in stocks and MFs and keep 2 lakh in an emergency savings account. My long-term goal is to pay off all loans, build a financial buffer to move back to my hometown a tier 2 city and do remote work from there - this might reduce our househol income by 30-40%. Given these details, how should I plan our investments to achieve the goals and how many years are we looking to achieve this?

Ans: Hi,

You have done great investments at such age. Let us go through the details one by one:
1. You have a term cover and health insurance for yourself as well as family.
2. You should have emergency fund of 6 months' worth expenses in liquid mutual funds for uncertain times, 2 lakhs is way too less.
3. Currently 3 loans - Home, Car and Personal. All loans will be finished in 9 and 4 years respectively(total EMI - 1.5 lakhs). Overall loans are high. Try to close PErsonal loand first followed by car loan to reduce the EMI burden.
4. 50 lakhs current holdings in stocks and mutual funds.
5. 30 lakhs in PF.
6. 1.4 lakh monthly expenses.
7. Current SIP - 1 lakh permonth in stocks and mutual funds.

You have build a great wealth for yourself at your age. You are also planning to start a family. Keep your invesments like this with consistency and you will finish loans and be able to move to your home as well.

Although direct stock investment needs loads of time and research - hence not recommended. It is advisable for you to keep your investments limited to mutual funds only. And it would be great to take a professional's help as even a slightest mistake can break or make your wealth.

Before relocating after few years, try to maximize your investments at the maximum potential and let compounding do its magic. Try to invest more than 1 lakh per month in mutual funds for a secured future.

Doing and managing investments along with your job is not recommended. It is always better to go for professional advice when it comes to money.

You can connect with a professional Certified Financial Planner - a CFP who can guide you with exact funds to invest in keeping in mind your age, requirements, financial goals and risk profile. A CFP periodically reviews your portfolio and suggest any amendments to be made, if required.

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Ans: Hi,

It is great that you are investing since 2017. Long investments and patience always gives results.
You can easily achieve your goal corpus by the time you turn 58, if investment done correctly.

The funds you mentioned have so much overlapping and scattered. It needs rework and complete reallocation. Maximum of 5 funds should be there. Take the help of a professional to align your portfolio with your goal and customized profile.

A random portfolio like yours can create an opposite impact and generate negative to zero returns.

And try to increase the monthly SIP by 10% each year. This will take care of inflation power.

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Question by Rajesh - Dec 15, 2025Hindi

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Hello and namaskar.. I am 36 years old. Need your guidance in the following funds- (a) parag parekh flexi cap - 7500/- per month (B) GROWW nifty midcap 150 index fund -2500/- per month (C) mirae asset ELLS tax saver -5000/- (D) pGIM india mid cap opp. Fund -5000/- (E) quant small cap fund-4000/- (F) ICICI prudential equity and debt fund - 3000 (G) HDFC FLEXI CAP FUND - 4000 (H) Uti nifty 50 index fund - 5000 Additionally I want to invest 1lakh annually. Tell me where to invest this additional amount. These funds are ok or I should exit from any fund and invest in any other fund. I want to get 2 crore till the end of 2035. Am I going on the right track.

Ans: Hi Rajesh,

Appreciate your dedication in investing in mutual funds for long term. The funds selected by you are very random and not recommended for your goal. Overall investments are also not in alignment, this portfolio is a very random one.
Currently you are investing 36000 per month - keep your investments simple in largecap, midcap, smallcap and mutlicap fund. Keep additional 1 lakh as well in these funds.

You should consider exiting funds like quant and shift to more stable ones.

Your current funds are direct, but direct funds are over-rated. A random portfolio like this can instead give less returns than a professionally designed one. It is always better to go for a regular portfolio suggested by a professional. Proper funds with a designed dedicated plan will help you reach your goal of 2 crores in 10 years in an efficient way.

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i am 49 yrs. currently invested Rs.13000 monthly in mutual fund. I want to invest more Rs.5000 monthly. pls suggest me. also i have Rs.20000 from FD, where to invest the amount pls suggest me.

Ans: Hi,

Investing everything in mutual funds is never a good idea.
- you should have an emergency fund of 3-6 months worth expenses in FD
- a term insurance and a health insurance is mandatory.

Once these conditions are fulfilled, invest additional 5000 in mutual funds. Share the existing funds in which you are doing SIP along with time horizon for me to guide you in a better way.

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Question by KRISHNAMURTHY - Dec 10, 2025Hindi

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Hi, I am a retired person, 66 years of age. Our family has a MUTUAL FUND holding of around 65 lakhs invested mostly in equity funds. We all have a health insurance of Rs 3 lakhs each. We live in our own house and need about Rs 25,000/ month for our expenses, which we get every month by way of SWPs. My daughter has finished her studies , but still has not started earning. I can now invest around Rs 5000 per month in SIPs . Kindly advice me as to which fund I could invest in. Other should I invest in Gold ETFs? Do I need a Demat Account to do the later?

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It is very good that you have managed to do SWPs to cover your monthly expenses. For additional 5000 investment per month, you can split between the 2:
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The issue is that you are still employed and online application for monthly pension i.e. Form 10D is available only after you have left service and updated your date of exit on the EPFO portal.
But as you are currently active with a new employer, the system only permits Form 31 for partial withdrawals.

Since you meet the requirements for a superannuation pension (age 62 with 13 years of service), please follow these steps to proceed:

1. Verify Your Service History - Check the "Service History" section of your UAN portal. Ensure your previous employer has officially updated your Date of Exit. The online system cannot process a pension claim without this status update.
2. Use the Offline Application Method - If the online portal remains restricted or encounters technical errors, you must submit a physical application.
* Download Form 10D: Obtain the hard copy from the official EPFO website.
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For real-time status updates or specific account queries, you can reach the **EPFO helpline at 14470.

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Dear Sir, Kindly enlighten me as to how long one can park ( years ) MFs in growth investments. Do they need to be renewed periodically? Do they lapse on long period of investments?

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You can park for indefinite period. There is no renewal necessary and there is no lapse. On death of the holder, your family can claim those investments if they have the details.

But since you are a new investor, avoid investing in random funds and take a professionals help.
Do consult a professional Certified Financial Planner - a CFP who can guide you with exact funds to invest in keeping in mind your age, requirements, financial goals and risk profile. A CFP periodically reviews your portfolio and suggest any amendments to be made, if required.

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Question by deepa - Nov 28, 2025Hindi

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I have invested in Quant Small Cap, Quant Infrastructure and Quant Large and Midcap through SIP route. This is almost 18 months and I have never found these 3 on positive so far. Please suggest if I can stop and switch to some one. I plan these SIPs for a time frame of 3 yrs. Best

Ans: Hi,

These funds are not recommended. You can redeem these funds and invest in better funds available. And avoid investing in such random funds yourself. Instead take a professional's help.

Let me know if you need more help.

Best Regards,
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