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Neetu Question by Neetu on Sep 01, 2021Hindi
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Dear Pooja,
We adopted a 2.5 year old Maltese terrier last year.
He was quite aggressive when we took him in, to the extent my kids had to take tetanus injections due to his bites.
We realised this was because he had separation anxiety as he was in and out of five houses before us.
He has cooled down a lot with time but occasionally he gets aggressive when he approaches people at the door.
He tends to growl and bite and it is when we least expect it as these people are known to him.
Please advise how to train him.
Regards,
Neetu Nelson

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Hi Neetu.

Thanks for writing to us.

Your pet's issues are serious.

You will need a detailed consultation with a trainer so that you can understand his routine and bite history behaviour.

Advice regarding aggressive behaviour can’t be given online.

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Ans: Dear Shubham,
How is it possible for a 5-year old to understand logic when he is throwing an emotional fit (tantrum)?
Like you said it yourself; when it could have been stopped and changed, it wasn't done. He probably felt that it was fine to behave 'violently' (though I don't understand the context in which you use this word).
Now. all of a sudden when you and your wife are trying to stop him, he is pulling away as this behaviour was rewarded earlier. he has your earlier silence as your love and affection for which which he fears will be withdrawn now if he stops his behaviour.
So, logic isn't going to work; it doesn't work with adults, and here the child is merely 5 years.
So undoing what was done is going to take a lot of effort and patience (beyond all the talk that you and yoir wife are doing).
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- ignoring his tantrums; he will time-out himself in exhaustion
- talking to him at his eye level; get down on your knees, so he doesn't feel intimidated by your height
- hugging him a lot; a caring touch is worth a thousand words
- telling him how excited you both were when he was born; this can ensure that he will be special even after the arrival of the new baby
- distracting him with creative things; story telling and fine motor skill games improve focus and concentration
- cutting down on foods filled with sugar; sugar boost is artificial and can make a child or anyone go a little anxious
- ensuring him that he is loved a lot; saying it aloud while hugging him will soften his behaviour over time

Try these and I hope they work. If not, kindly without delay seek an appointment with a professional who can deal with children at your son's age.

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Hello sir, I am a 42 year old, have a dependend wife and 10 yr old daughter (5 STD). I have a monthly income of 2.25 lakh in hand. Monthly expenses 70k. I have no debts and I am staying in my own flat. I invested 1 lakhs in equity stocks, 16 lakhs in MF lumpsum, 13 lakh in FD and 10 lakh in NSC. Till date my PF is 27 lacs. I pay 40,000 SIP monthly starting from 2023, pay PPF 1.5 lacs p.a.from 2022, pay NPS 1.3 lacs p.a from 2022 and pay SSY 1.5 lacs p.a.from 2020 and PPF for wife 1 lacs p.a from 2022 and PPF for daughter 50k p.a.from 2023. Family medical insurance of 10 lacs.. and myself term insurance of 50 lakhs and LIC of 10 lakhs. Also I purchased LIC Child Money back of 10 lacs and SBI smart chap 5 lacs for my daughter education. I want to plan my retirement at the age of 55. How should i plan my retirement 3 cr corpus??
Ans: Your financial situation is stable, with multiple investments and no liabilities.

Income: Rs. 2.25 lakh per month offers strong savings potential after expenses.

Expenses: Rs. 70,000 per month leaves ample room for investments.

Existing Investments: Equity stocks (Rs. 1 lakh), mutual funds (Rs. 16 lakh), FD (Rs. 13 lakh), NSC (Rs. 10 lakh), and PF (Rs. 27 lakh) form a diversified base.

Ongoing Commitments: SIP of Rs. 40,000, PPF contributions, and NPS add regular growth.

Insurance Coverage: Adequate health insurance (Rs. 10 lakh) and term insurance (Rs. 50 lakh).

Defining Your Retirement Goal
You aim for a Rs. 3 crore corpus by age 55. Consider inflation and lifestyle needs.

Inflation Impact: Rs. 3 crore today might not suffice in 13 years due to inflation.

Monthly Expenses: Rs. 70,000 now could double to Rs. 1.4 lakh due to 6% inflation.

Longevity Planning: Plan for a 30-year post-retirement period to ensure financial security.

Evaluating Current Investments
Equity Stocks: Rs. 1 lakh is a small allocation. Consider diversifying into mutual funds.

Mutual Funds: Rs. 16 lakh in lump sum and Rs. 40,000 SIP build growth over time.

Fixed Deposits: Rs. 13 lakh ensures safety but offers low returns.

National Savings Certificate (NSC): Rs. 10 lakh provides stability but lacks flexibility.

Provident Fund: Rs. 27 lakh builds wealth steadily, given your regular contributions.

PPF and NPS: Long-term instruments aligned with retirement goals.

SSY for Daughter: Rs. 1.5 lakh annually ensures her education expenses are planned.

Insurance Policies: LIC and child plans provide minimal returns; consider alternatives.

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Optimising Investments
Increase SIP Amount: Gradually raise your SIP to benefit from compounding and market growth.

Focus on Equity Funds: Actively managed funds can generate higher returns compared to index funds.

Reduce FD Dependence: Move a portion of FDs into balanced mutual funds for better returns.

Exit Traditional Plans: Consider surrendering LIC and SBI child plans to reinvest in high-growth mutual funds.

Build Emergency Fund: Maintain 6–12 months' expenses in liquid funds or savings accounts.

Enhancing Retirement Corpus
Leverage NPS: Increase contributions to benefit from tax savings and market-linked returns.

Continue PPF Contributions: This offers tax benefits and secure, inflation-beating returns.

Diversify Equity Allocation: Explore mid- and small-cap funds for higher growth potential.

Tax Efficiency: Plan withdrawals carefully to minimise capital gains taxes.

Securing Post-Retirement Income
Systematic Withdrawal Plans (SWP): Use SWPs for a steady, tax-efficient post-retirement income.

Debt Funds: Consider debt funds for predictable, stable returns during retirement.

Hybrid Mutual Funds: These balance growth and stability, suitable for retirement years.

Rebalance Regularly: Adjust equity and debt allocations annually as retirement nears.

Planning for Daughter’s Education
SSY Continuation: Ensure contributions continue till maturity for her education needs.

Mutual Funds for Education: Invest in diversified mutual funds for additional education corpus.

Avoid Traditional Plans: LIC and child policies may underperform compared to mutual funds.

Protecting Against Risks
Health Insurance: Increase family health coverage to at least Rs. 20 lakh to cover rising medical costs.

Term Insurance: Ensure term insurance coverage matches your family’s financial needs.

Inflation-Proofing: Allocate part of the retirement corpus to equity for inflation-adjusted growth.

Emergency Fund: Keep funds easily accessible for unexpected expenses.

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Your financial foundation is strong, and your retirement goal is achievable with better planning. Focus on optimising investments, ensuring inflation-adjusted returns, and securing your family’s future. Regular reviews with a certified financial planner will ensure alignment with your goals.

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Monthly Requirement: Rs. 70,000–75,000 per month for household expenses equates to Rs. 9–9.5 lakh annually.

Inflation Adjustment: Considering inflation of 6–7%, expenses will double in 12 years.

Life Expectancy: Assume a planning horizon of 30–35 years to cover longevity risks.

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Fixed Deposits: Rs. 3.5 crore in FDs ensures safety and liquidity but offers low returns.

Mutual Funds: Rs. 7.5–8 crore in small, mid, and multi-asset funds offers growth potential.

Property: Owning a house eliminates rent expenses, reducing cash outflows.

Emergency Reserve: Maintain six months' expenses in liquid funds or savings accounts.

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Equity Allocation: Retain a portion of your portfolio in equity for long-term growth.

Debt Allocation: Use debt investments for stable returns and capital protection.

Hybrid Funds: Consider hybrid mutual funds to balance risk and reward.

Generating Regular Income
Systematic Withdrawal Plan (SWP): Use SWPs in mutual funds for consistent, tax-efficient cash flow.

Debt Fund Withdrawals: Use debt mutual funds for short-term needs due to lower tax rates.

Staggered Fixed Deposits: Ladder FDs to balance liquidity and optimise returns.

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Capital Gains Taxation: Plan withdrawals to minimise taxes on mutual fund gains.

Debt Fund Taxation: Withdraw debt mutual funds cautiously to stay in a lower tax bracket.

Senior Citizen Benefits: Use senior citizen savings schemes for additional tax savings.

Interest Income: Monitor interest from FDs to avoid higher tax liabilities.

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Market Volatility: Avoid excessive allocation to small- and mid-cap funds in retirement.

Longevity Risk: Plan for a 35-year horizon to ensure corpus longevity.

Emergency Fund: Keep a separate fund to avoid withdrawing investments during downturns.

Evaluating Lifestyle Needs
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Medical Emergencies: Account for increasing healthcare costs with a health corpus.

Gifting and Support: Set aside funds for family support or charity, if required.

Rebalancing Your Portfolio
Review Annually: Rebalance your portfolio to align with changing needs and market conditions.

Reduce Equity Gradually: Decrease equity exposure as you age to reduce risk.

Increase Debt Allocation: Shift towards safer assets for stable cash flow.

Diversify Investments: Spread investments across asset classes to mitigate risks.

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Your corpus appears sufficient for retirement, given your modest monthly requirements. Proper planning, inflation adjustment, and portfolio rebalancing are crucial to ensure lifelong financial stability. Regular consultations with a certified financial planner will help optimise your investments and address unforeseen challenges.

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Launch Timing: Funds launched at different times may have different starting NAVs.

Expense Ratio: A higher expense ratio reduces returns over time, affecting NAV growth.

Tracking Error: The fund’s ability to mimic the index may vary, creating NAV differences.

Dividend Payouts: Funds paying dividends see a reduction in NAV, impacting growth comparison.

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Market-Linked Risk: These funds decline in line with the index during market corrections.

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Missed Opportunities: Lack of guidance may result in suboptimal fund selection.

Behavioural Biases: Emotional decisions may negatively impact returns without a financial planner.

Benefits of Regular Plans through a Certified Financial Planner
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Portfolio Review: Regular plans come with portfolio reviews and rebalancing support.

Expertise and Insights: A certified financial planner has access to market insights and research.

Tax Optimisation: Proper planning ensures tax-efficient investments and withdrawals.

Evaluating Your Choice of Index Fund
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Focus on Goals: Ensure the fund aligns with your long-term objectives.

Consider Tracking Error: A fund with a low tracking error is more efficient.

Reassess for Active Alternatives: Actively managed funds could provide better returns in certain categories.

Liquidity of AUM: High AUM ensures better liquidity but does not guarantee superior returns.

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Why do hotels in India disallow unmarried couples? A few months ago, I was travelling with my girlfriend (who was my colleague then, we weren't dating then) on a work trip and suddenly, we received a knock on the door at night asking us to vacate the room in Delhi. It was 2 am and we were sleeping on different beds. There was a partition in the room, yet we were asked to pack and leave because some guest had complained. In the middle of the night no one was willing to offer us a room. It was an odd hour so at 4.30 am, I finally told the manager to let my GF hire a room as we had nowhere to go. I waited in the reception area. Isn't it unsafe to take the booking and then ask us to vacate later? Why is India so rude to unmarried couples? A boy and a girl could also be friends sharing a room to save money!
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Each hotel use discretion to allow or disallow an unmarried couple from staying in their premises. There could be various reasons which may include activities which are outside of the law. Now, to what has happened to you is very inconsiderate. My question to you is: while booking, did you look at the hotel policies? If it says: unmarried couples allowed, then whatever has happened can be challenged and you can possibly demand a refund for unfair treatment. If it disallows unmarried couples and they have accommodated you, even then they are in the wrong for going against their own policies and then inconveniencing you.
So, clarity on this will give you an idea as to what exactly happened.
I don't know if India is being rude to unmarried couples as each person will view it through their lens and come to a conclusion as to whether it's right or wrong. Always check the hotel policies before booking.

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