Hi Doctor.... I'm 43 years male and weight 73 kgs with height 160 cms. My fasting blood sugar is in range of 110-130 and post prandtl blood sugar is 140 ad HBA1c is 5.7. I have a buerer BM27 blood pressure monitor and when ever i measure the blood pressure the range is 120/77. However the BP monitor does record a high of 240, 210, 200, 190 levels whenever i measure the BP and it settles at 120/77 or 125/80 and such levels in normal range.. Is this BP measurement normal and having the highest readings of 240. 210, 200 levels reaching to such level norma ?

Ans: Now let's talk about what he wants to do? He must realize that not everyone needs to do coding. There are lots of other jobs in sales, marketing, Customer relationship management. He should look for those jobs. There is no shortage of jobs for those willing to get started. You have to motivate him that he needs to be on the look out for a job.

Do let him share final score in the BE, which college and university. Does his college have a placement cell? Will they not consider him for placement this year considering that he lost time due to medical reasons. Perhaps a special request to the college will help.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
First of all, it is great that you took her feedback so positively and are trying to make constructive changes. It is not easy to admit flaws and work on them. Now, I would suggest starting off by putting your attention a little more on yourself than your partner. Focus on being independent; just because two people are dating does not mean they have to be constantly co-dependent. Pursue new hobbies, connect with friends, explore new things alone and some time together, and in general, give more time to personal growth.

Everyone has different love languages and life events can shape the way we give and receive love. For you, being too attentive and attached can be a byproduct of the childhood trauma you mentioned. Similarly, your partner's way of receiving love can be different. The best way to understand each other's love language is to communicate clearly. Listen to her without getting defensive. I would hope she can do the same for you. I am sure a few open conversations can bring you both to that sweet spot where you both are comfortable with each other's style of showing love.

I would also suggest therapy to address the insecurity and unresolved issues from your past. It can do wonders for your emotional health. Also, remember that a healthy relationship needs some room to grow. Allow yours the space.

Best Wishes.

Ans: I am not clear on your question/s.
Please put down your questions clearly serial-wise. Also give full name of your course, college

Ans: I suggest you focus on your program with your full energies, work on projects, hackathons, pick up software skills from SWayam portal and be ready to face the placement interviews in an year form now.

Ans: Computer science is a vast and exciting field with several branches, dimensions and aspects. You need to identify area that you would like to pursue, make a study plan and excel in that.

Ans: Certainly. Genpact is and people friendly company that cares to evolve a career progression plan, Your son should discuss with his supervisors and work it out jointly.

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Ans: My short answer : for bright students and those willing to work hard there is going to be a big demand. So focus on your studies, score well, participate in hackathons, do well in your internships.

Ans: Karthick, You need to congratulate your self for having 11 years of work experience in QC/QA in Auto/ Auto components and Spares industry. Please identify possible openings in the auto industry, auto dealerships in and around your city, make applications with a well rounded bio data, prepare well for the interview and you will do well. In the meantime aslo take a up Coursera courses in EV technology as that is an area of big growth and manpower will be in short supply. Take help of your former employers, peers, seniors to recommend you for possible openings.