I am selected for UG, Mechanical Engineering in MIT manipal, and SHIV NADAR UNIVERSITY noida which one should i go ahead with, i want to puruse my PG in GERMANY. PLEASE ADVICE I AM FROM CHENNAI

Ans: Wanting to support your mother while your father is away is not just correct — it’s deeply human. She’s alone, and your presence may be emotionally and practically important for her right now. At the same time, it’s understandable that your in-laws may feel a bit sensitive if they perceive frequent visits as a lack of “settling” into their family. But this isn’t about frequency — it’s about transparency and intention.

Rather than asking for permission or sneaking around the discomfort, try being open and respectful in your communication. You could say something like: “My mom is alone for a few days while dad is out of town, and she’s not comfortable being alone — so I’d like to stay with her just to support her emotionally. I’ve been here continuously and want to return soon after this short visit.”

When your in-laws see that you are considerate and not abandoning your responsibilities, but simply being a good daughter too, they’re more likely to understand. Over time, your consistency and maturity will build trust.

It’s also okay to gently help your in-laws understand that both families are important to you — and your presence in each doesn’t threaten your role in the other.

Ans: Hello dear.
As much as possible, set aside the idea of VIT Chennai. With the mentioned score from MHT-CET, your son has excellent chances of getting a mechanical engineering seat in top colleges in the Pune and Mumbai region. Please choose options carefully during the counseling process.
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Ans: Hello Dhirendra
With the mentioned score of MHT-CET, she has moderate chances of getting CSE either in Pune or Mumbai. She can gain admission to Cummins, VIT Pune, and KJ with a compromise on the branch concerning CSE. These options are favorable compared to SRM KTR if your daughter secures CSE, which seems challenging at present. Also, consider COMDEK. However, if you are a domicile of Maharashtra and your daughter is keenly interested in CSE only, then she has chances of gaining admission to private colleges through the management quota in Pune or Mumbai. If you are comfortable with SRM, it would be a better option compared to tier 2 colleges in Maharashtra. The final decision will be yours.
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Ans: Hello Piyush
We can't list the names of colleges. Participate in the counseling process carefully.
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Ans: Hello Anugu
Please ask the administration of IIT Patna. Related to branch change, we are unable to comment anything else.
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Ans: Hello dear
Chances are slim with any of the GMCs in Maharashtra. Explore other medical course options.
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Ans: Hello Abhineet
If possible, wait for other college offers.
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Ans: Hello dear.
Yes. Mahindra is a good option.
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