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Parthiban T R

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Career Counsellor - Answered on Jul 26, 2024

Parthiban TR, a former professor, has been working in the fields of training and learning development for over 17 years.
As a career counsellor and mentor, he has been tutoring students from Classes I to XII (predominantly CBSE), UG (engineering) and others for nearly a decade.
He has worked as a lecturer and professor at the Kuppam Engineering College, Kuppam; the NRI Group of Institutions in Bhopal; and the Bhopal Institute of Technology and Science in Bhopal.
Parthiban qualified for GATE in 2002, 2011 and 2013 and has been training aspirants to prepare for NEET-UG and IIT-JEE.
He holds a bachelor's degree in computer science and engineering from the Guru Ramdas Khalsa Institute of Technology College in Madhya Pradesh and a bachelor's degree in education, specialising in physics and mathematics, from the Sri Venkateswara University, Tirupati.... more
Asked by Anonymous - Jun 11, 2024Hindi
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I am really confused , as I AM a girl 17 yr old currently in 12thwith non medical stream. I didn't have any dream since my Childhood but now i am really interested in being a pilot . I am good at studies and reaction in top 3 students of my institute. My parents wanted and always told me to complete for iit exam. Although i myself never told about the pilot thing. But i really want to go to the air force in the Indian army. I myself filled the nda form as well for the nda exam sept2024. But i just got to know that my eyesight is out of the range of eligibility, its 9.5 for both eyes. I talked to 2 major generals about this and somehow they said that i do have scope either by any compensation for "girl" or by going to simulation flying. Please guide!!!!! ????

Ans: Follow your passion, that's soul satisfying and good for health and your future. GBU.
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