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MHT-CET, IIT-JEE, NEET-UG Expert - Answered on Nov 26, 2024

Radheshyam Zanwar is the founder of Zanwar Classes which prepares aspirants for competitive exams such as MHT-CET, IIT-JEE and NEET-UG.
Based in Aurangabad, Maharashtra, it provides coaching for Class 10 and Class 12 students as well.
Since the last 25 years, Radheshyam has been teaching mathematics to Class 11 and Class 12 students and coaching them for engineering and medical entrance examinations.
Radheshyam completed his civil engineering from the Government Engineering College in Aurangabad.... more
Tushar Question by Tushar on Nov 22, 2024Hindi
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Namaste sir, main btech cse ka student hun 3 year me gayq hu 2nd year me meri 5 subjects me back aa gyi hai aur college me dher saare assignments , file likh likh kar mujhe skill ko develop karne ka time nahi mil paa raha hai kyoki mera time back subjects + assignment file karne me hi beet jata hai iski wajah se main college ki activities me participate nahi kar paa raha hu jisse main depressed hu. Mereko ko lag raha hai ki meri cgpa na girr jaaye please guide

Ans: Hello Tushar
Surprisingly, even after completing two years and now studying in the third year, you won't be able to manage your studies, assignments, and other activities. Please note that the same schedule applies to other students. Yet, if others can manage then why not you? Please check your regular timetable and other timetables. Soon you will come to know where you are going wrong. The engineering course is just a time management course. One of the possibilities that you might be lagging is, you may be doing engineering without any interest or you might be forced to do it. You did not mention where you are studying in a government or private college. Start creating an interest in CSE subjects, set your target for the future, and plan accordingly your studies. if lazy, then come out of that factor which is very common. Only 1 and 1/2 years remain in your hand. If you excel in your studies, your CGPA will also improve. Focus on your personality, communication skills, and other parameters that are badly needed at the time of campus interview. Talk with the senior and passed-out students and change yourself as early as possible. Last but not least, remove negative thoughts from your mind. For jobs, CGPA is not the only deciding factor. Overall curricular activities also matters.

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I am doing great, thank you for asking, God bless you!

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Your son is 12.5, he will soon be a teenager. There will be different challenges, I want you to read up on parenting a teenager and be ready to handle him well.

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