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Leadership, HR Expert - Answered on Apr 08, 2024

Shekhar Kumar is an HR, talent, and client acquisition leader at Star Engicon Private Limited (SEPL). He has 18 years of expertise in the search and placement of executive leadership talent across various industries.
He has also mentored middle and senior management professionals for leadership positions and guided them in career development.
Shekhar has a bachelor's degree in business management from Magadh University, Bihar, and a master's degree in human resource management from Annamalai University, Tamil Nadu.... more
Asked by Anonymous - Apr 06, 2024Hindi
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I'm in company where everything is very toxic I have no other option but to resign immediately but I'm in probation period and joined 2 months ago and notice period is of 3 months .. should I get abscond will it affect my future employment

Ans: Thank you for getting in touch with me on Rediff Gurus. Leaving a job during your probation without giving notice period is a tough decision hence, it is important for you to do it in the right manner. Here are some tips that will help:

First keep your document organized and easily accessible before your start the process. Use a diary, notebook, digital document or dedicated folder to store all records related to workplace misconduct because documentation is everything.

Write down the date, time, location and details of each incident as soon as possible after it occurred. Document everything including specific behavior or actions observed and any individual involved in it along with any supporting evidence such as emails, messages, photographs, or witness statements that matters.

Describe the impact of the misconduct on you by others in the workplace such as emotional distress, decrease in productivity, health or damage to relationships a sequential order with respect to date, time and location before you talk to anyone else.

Once documentation is over then reach out to others which include your trusted friends, colleagues, well wishers, professional network, experts & mentors for advice and suggestion to get better insight and suggestion on how to handle the situation effectively.

You should also familiarize yourself with your company policies and procedures to follow the appropriate channels outlined in HR Policy of your organization for escalating complaints to the right person responsible or you can meet HR or reporting manager to discuss your concerns openly and professionally by sharing the reason for resigning along with the possibility of mutual agreement to end the probation period early and try to negotiate a compromise with your employer. This could involve offering an option to assist with the transition during your remaining time to help mitigate the impact of your early departure.

In case, you are still unsure about your rights and obligations, consider seeking an advice from a lawyer or legal expert who is specialized in employment law to decide the best course of action based on your local state regulations and specific circumstances as well.

If possible, try to exit this toxic company in a professional manner but ultimately, the decision to resign immediately or serving your notice period depends on your specific circumstances with potential risk involved. I believe by handling this situation with these careful considerations and strategic planning you can come out from this difficult phase with minimal repercussions on your future career opportunities.

Please keep in mind that a toxic culture will beat a good professional every time. Don’t let these toxic people from this organization rent space in your head. It’s time to raise the rent & kick them out of your life while you look for a positive work environment in your next job and feel free to contact me via Rediff Gurus if you require any additional help or advice.
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Ans: I’m sorry to hear about your situation. When facing termination due to not serving the full notice period, it’s important to understand your rights and the potential legal implications. Here’s what you can consider doing:

Review Your Employment Contract: Check the terms regarding the notice period and termination. There might be provisions for situations like medical emergencies.
Legal Consultation: It may be beneficial to consult with a labor law attorney who can provide advice based on the specifics of your case and the applicable laws.
Documentation: Gather all relevant documentation, including the medical prescriptions you submitted, any communication from HR, and the termination letter.
Negotiation: You could attempt to negotiate with your employer, explaining the situation with your parents and seeking a compassionate resolution.
Labor Office: If negotiation fails, you may approach the local labor office or labor court for guidance and to explore options for redressal.
Understand Legal Precedents: Familiarize yourself with any legal precedents that may apply to your case. For instance, the Supreme Court has provided judgments on employment notice periods that might offer insights into your rights and obligations.
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Hi Sir/Madam, I was working in an company where only 7 people are there .And, I absconded from the company 2 week back, because there they were discriminating the employees by religion who all are not their own religion. Every morning they'll use to do thier religious related things and also they were asked me to do gradually . But, I refused, because I never ever used to do those things and not comfortable as well. Since the day, that Manager was indirectly targeting, pressurizing me & some people and separating us. Not able to work properly and got depressed But, in our Offer letter it has been mentioned that there are 3 Years of probation period and without completing Notice period employees experience letter and releaving letter won't be provided. So, I absconded from that organisation without any releaving letter and experience letter, because I couldn't not able to pursue there. So, pls give right solutions to pursue my career, because I have 2 Years of experience. I don't want to waste my work experience.
Ans: I’m sorry to hear about your difficult situation. But I can suggest some general steps you might consider:

Document Everything: Keep a record of all communications and incidents that led to your decision to leave the company. This could be useful if you need to prove your case later.
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Job Search: Start looking for a new job that aligns with your career goals and provides a respectful work environment. Your previous experience will definitely be valuable.
Explain Your Situation: When applying for new jobs, be honest about your situation. Employers understand that not all work environments are healthy, and explaining your situation might help them understand your decision.
Remember, it’s important to seek professional advice in situations like these. I hope things get resolved for you soon.

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Dear LG, Please keep this anonymous. I have been married since 6 years. However, since past 5+ years we have not been intimate. We haave a 5&1/2 year kid. Since his birth we have had a lot of differences and his family interference was lot leaving me alone and wounded. I don't stay with my husband and in-laws since then. I had made up that work is worship. But 2 years back I met a colleague. He is 10 years younger to me and we have extremely similar vibes. We enjoy each other's company and cared a lot. Eventually i fell in love with him. But he always knew he wont be able to go against his family. We also had relationship. Now he has strated looking for girls and wants us to stop being intimate. He is saying he wants to be friends and not loose me but not have relationship. We both work together in same space and our area of work is also same. I am unable to forgive my husband and forget this person. He never goes away. He is always there telling that I want to see you happy. He needs me for professional development. And i am not able to loose our relationship. He says physical intimacy only I cant have remaining Im there. Then again says I don’t know when I will be there so I am unable to give assurance or promise. I am tormented with a child, work and my health is getting affected. Can you please help?
Ans: Dear Anonymous,

I am sorry that you are in such a tough spot. My advice would be to move on. Yes, I realize that it is easier said than done but let's put things into perspective- first, you have no future with this man, and he has made it clear. Are you okay to keep hanging on to him while he builds his own life? I am assuming no, especially since you have a child. Second, what about your self-respect? He is directly telling you that this relationship is headed toward a dead end. Do you believe you deserve to be with someone who does not want to settle down with you? I believe you deserve better.

I am not blaming him because he made no promises. You are not to be held guilty either because you were in a tough spot and you grabbed the first emotional support you found. But the current reality is that he wants out. And convincing him to stay is not an option. At this point, moving on with your head held high is the best decision. If you want to accept his friendship, that is completely fine. But if that's too much for you, you can always decline it. I understand that working in the same space with an ex is difficult, but as long as you avoid interacting outside of the office and keep things professional, there should not be an issue. On the emotional front, I won't lie, it will hurt for a while. But this too shall pass. I strongly recommend you not to value yourself so low that you stop believing that you deserve a person who loves you back as much as you love him.

Best Wishes.

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