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Asked by Anonymous - Jun 01, 2025Hindi
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Got 68 marks in mht cet percentile yet not released and 83 in boards. For my career tell me how much is my expected percentile as I am tensed and want to pursue civil engineering

Ans: With 68 marks in MHT CET 2025, your expected percentile ranges between 83.2–83.6 (approximate rank 32,800–33,600) based on historical normalization trends. For Civil Engineering, this rank aligns with Government College of Engineering, Karad (2024 closing rank: 37,855) and Sinhgad Academy of Engineering (closing rank: 43,215), while marginally exceeding thresholds for COEP Pune (47,000) and VJTI Mumbai (45,000) in previous years. Your 83% board marks strengthen eligibility for institutes like SGGS Institute of Engineering & Technology and Pune Vidyarthi Griha’s College, which prioritize academic consistency alongside entrance scores. Recommendation: Target COEP Pune and VJTI Mumbai during early counselling rounds, while securing Government College of Engineering, Amravati or Walchand College of Engineering as reliable options. For backups, consider D.Y. Patil College of Engineering or Sinhgad Institutes, ensuring participation in all CAP rounds to leverage potential rank improvements. All the BEST for your Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Step-by-Step Guide to Check Your Admission Chances Using JoSAA Data
Step 1: Collect Your Key Details
Before starting, note down the following details:

Your JEE Main percentile
Your category (General-Open, SC, ST, OBC-NCL, EWS, PwD categories)
Preferred institute types (NIT, IIIT, GFTI)
Preferred locations (or if you're open to any location in India)
List of at least 3 preferred academic programs (branches) as backups (instead of relying on just one option)
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Go to Google and type: JoSAA Opening & Closing Ranks 2024
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Step 3: Select the Round Number
JoSAA conducts five rounds of counseling.
For a safer estimate, choose Round 4, as most admissions are settled by this round.
Step 4: Choose the Institute Type
Select NIT, IIIT, or GFTI, depending on your preference.
If you are open to all types of institutes, check them one by one instead of selecting all at once.
Step 5: Select the Institute Name (Based on Location)
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Avoid selecting ‘ALL’ at once, as it may create confusion.
Step 6: Select Your Preferred Academic Program (Branch)
Enter the branches you are interested in, one at a time, in your preferred order.
Step 7: Submit and Analyze Results
After selecting the relevant details, click the ‘SUBMIT’ button.
The system will display Opening & Closing Ranks of the selected institute and branch for different categories.
Step 8: Note Down the Opening & Closing Ranks
Maintain a notebook or diary to record the Opening & Closing Ranks for each institute and branch you are interested in.
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Step 9: Adjust Your Expectations on a Safer Side
Since Opening & Closing Ranks fluctuate slightly each year, always adjust the numbers for safety.
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If the Opening & Closing Ranks for NIT Delhi | Mechanical Engineering | OPEN Category show 8622 & 26186 (for Home State), consider adjusting them to 8300 & 23000 (on a safer side).
If the Female Category rank is 34334 & 36212, adjust it to 31000 & 33000.
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Yes! You can repeat the same steps after your April JEE Main results to refine your admission possibilities.
You can also follow a similar process for JEE Advanced cutoffs when applying for IITs.

Have some other options also as back-ups instead of relying only on JEE/JoSAA.

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If you want detailed insights on JoSAA counseling, engineering entrance exams, preparation strategies, and engineering career options, check out EduJob360’s 180+ YouTube videos on this topic!

Hope this guide helps! All the best for your admissions and a bright future!

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Ans: Your husband’s constant complaints about food, money, and your past are not just hurtful — they reflect deeper issues of control and emotional insensitivity. He is disregarding the fact that you are raising two daughters, trying to maintain harmony in the house, and even contributing part of the rent from your own limited resources. Your life before this marriage is being used against you unfairly, when in truth, that part of your journey made you stronger and more committed.

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And if part of you already knows he may never be ready, it’s okay to move forward. You’re 20, with a long, vibrant life ahead. Don’t let fear of loss keep you from choosing peace.

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