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How to Manage IIT JEE Coaching and Class 12th Studies After Repeated Failures?

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Career Counsellor - Answered on Jun 28, 2024

Parthiban TR, a former professor, has been working in the fields of training and learning development for over 17 years.
As a career counsellor and mentor, he has been tutoring students from Classes I to XII (predominantly CBSE), UG (engineering) and others for nearly a decade.
He has worked as a lecturer and professor at the Kuppam Engineering College, Kuppam; the NRI Group of Institutions in Bhopal; and the Bhopal Institute of Technology and Science in Bhopal.
Parthiban qualified for GATE in 2002, 2011 and 2013 and has been training aspirants to prepare for NEET-UG and IIT-JEE.
He holds a bachelor's degree in computer science and engineering from the Guru Ramdas Khalsa Institute of Technology College in Madhya Pradesh and a bachelor's degree in education, specialising in physics and mathematics, from the Sri Venkateswara University, Tirupati.... more
Asked by Anonymous - Jun 24, 2024Hindi
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After 10th boards i have taken a 6 months gap for joining kota iit jee coaching there i got depressed and felt anxious so after 8 months i get back to home then i again joined school class 11 pcm to peruse my education and again targeted jee then also i got failed in 11th and haven't attempt any jee mocks now I again enrolled in jee coaching in class 12th so I'm now in chaotic situation how to manage them together and also stuck with 12th syllabus

Ans: Attempting something without a systematic plan and with the mindset like yours gets to a tough situation.
Never mind about what has gone by.
For you it will be better to just focus on XII standard. You will pass that with good marks and there are quite good chances that you will perform better in JEE.
I would never recommend to leave JEE, because there's fire in you to do it, certainly do it but with proper planning.
Study all your Textbooks properly in depth and solve all the book back problems effortlessly.
Learn the skills while enjoying it.
I don't see any failure then.
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