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BITSMUN
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Dating, Relationships Expert - Answered on Mar 19, 2025
Asked on - Feb 22, 2025
I like a Girl quiet very much, I don't know her side of feelings for me. We both are in college and spend quiet good and long time like whole whole days whenever we plan, cafe hopping gossiping. I fear losing friendship if I outrightly propose her without knowing her side, how to know her side? Like if she likes me or not?
I doubt she sees me as best friend only because, though we are quiet close but everytime hinting at some boys who like her she knows she has twice or thrice said, "No to any relationship for now" and she is mostly quiet clear in her mind about what she does not want.
Ans: Dear BITSMUN,
The only way to know for sure is to ask. Without verbal confirmation, there is never 100% surety. Other than that, there are signs if a person likes you romantically- it is more of a gut feeling. Did you ever feel she likes you more than a friend? When in doubt, use a hypothetical situation. Tell her to imagine that you two are dating and ask if she thinks you will make a good couple. See how she reacts. It should give you a rough idea. But the best method is still to be an adult and admit you have some feelings, but let her know that you won't pursue it if she doesn't feel the same way.
Hope this helps.
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The only way to know for sure is to ask. Without verbal confirmation, there is never 100% surety. Other than that, there are signs if a person likes you romantically- it is more of a gut feeling. Did you ever feel she likes you more than a friend? When in doubt, use a hypothetical situation. Tell her to imagine that you two are dating and ask if she thinks you will make a good couple. See how she reacts. It should give you a rough idea. But the best method is still to be an adult and admit you have some feelings, but let her know that you won't pursue it if she doesn't feel the same way.
Hope this helps.