hello I'm 62 yo, married, and I'm attracted to my young 21 yo maid. I think she is attracted to me too. I don't want to cause problems for anyone. what can I do?
Ans: Dear The,
The age isn't the biggest concern here; you are married. Ideally, that should've been the only big concern but your bold assumption that she is also attracted to you is equally concerning. If you don't want to cause any problems, keeping your feelings in check and focusing on your marriage to find out why you are seeking romance outside of your marriage would be the best course of action. You can also try seeing a professional counselor to help you get to the root cause of these feelings.
Best Wishes.