HI..I Am married 10 years ago with 2 kids .My wife loves me a lot but she gets angry very soon on little issues. As she also losses interest in sex. But i love to do that 2-3 times in week. So i have to choose another way to satisfy myself.What should i do that she takes more interest and gets less angry ?
Ans: Dear Vikas,
Marriage can become a routine and a chore after a few years and when there are children involved, the couple have little or almost no time for each other. This can have a direct impact on emotions and very little sex drive.
Both of you must invest time in one another to reconnect outside of the bedroom first. This will inevitably help intimacy and rekindle that lost spark!
1. Do little things for one another; gifts and other surprises
2. Offer to take care of the children over weekends where she can get a break (if she is predominantly taking care of the children)
3. Have a family member (grandparents perhaps) take care of the children one weekend a month, so that two of you get time to getaway
4. Help one another rekindle lost hobbies and interests
5. Find an activity that you can do together; cooking, exercising, painting...
The key here is BOND and allow that spark to come back and well, the rest is history...
All the best!