why my crush ignores me

Ans: You like someone and you have expressed the same but have not received any acknowledgement - this means time to move on - wishing you the best

Ans: Dear Juris,
Be YOU but if being YOU is being rigid and not allowing you to socialize the way that leads to making bigger connections, then do something about it:)
Hobby classes, meet up groups for like minded individuals, gyms, writing clubs...are great places to meet new people and socialize. Initially you can piggy back with your friends till you slowly become your own chaperone.
So, go out there and while still being YOU, also know that's there's so much to life and the joy that people can bring into your life as much as you can in their lives:) Explore slowly but surely...
As for this guy, he's young and playing the social media scene his way at his level of maturity. Off and On connections, ghosting, constant texting...all these are part of these platforms...you will get used to it as unwanted as it may seem. You will learn to safeguard your sanity while you are on these platforms.

All the best!

Ans: Dear Rajani,
Firstly let me put all your thoughts (assumptions) in one place. Assumptions are statements based on perceptions and not facts which sour connections and breaks relationships.
These have been picked from your question to me.
1. It is obvious that he doesn't want to be in touch
2. I wish he would stop playing games
3. I feel he is a drama king and thrives on it

This is your reading of the situations based on the way you have understood it. How much of this is true? Could it be your version of the truth?
Also, you have stated that you don't want to keep in touch; then why are you?
And if you really didn't want to, why is his playing games bothering you?
My suggestions:
1. Be clear if you want an association with him. If Yes, please clear out the air, so that there is no room for assumptions anymore.
2. Do understand that sometimes people are on eggshells after an altercation; he possibly is also carrying a lot of assumptions about you in his mind and that's why he's hot and cold alternatively.
3. Give the benefit of doubt to people; they might be going through something that you makes them behave in an odd way.
3. Drama King or not, there's a lot of unsaid discomfort between the two of you; do get into a non-judgemental space so even if the two of you don't patch up, it can be an amicable goodbye.

Steer away from assumptions and it makes room for either rebuilding a relationship or part ways on a good note.

All the best!

Ans: Dear Anonymous,

You did nothing wrong. There's really no answer to why he is acting this way. Some people are like that. Since he did not commit to you, you can not blame him directly, but if you really want closure, you can directly ask him about his sudden shift in behavior. If he denies it, let it be. You cannot force someone to accept their mistakes.

I suggest you focus on yourself, and your work, go out with other friends, and put him out of your mind. Again I am reminding you that you deserve better than this. It's better that it ended before you could get even more emotionally attached to a man who does not feel the same way about you.

Best Wishes!

Ans: You wish to know why are you being ignored despite no fight or disagreement...whilst she will be the best person to share reasons, here are a few : 1) she must have learnt something about you which she does not agree with 2) she may be busy 3) she may have missed reading your message or seeing your missed call - hope you get your response soon.