Hi sir, I am 29years old currently working in bangalore my monthly salary is 1,38000/- due to some personal family health reasons I have debts more than my montly salary atleast 188000 is required to pay only the PL loans and credit cards itself.. Is there any solution to get out of this debt trap...
Ans: You are 29, based in Bangalore, and earning Rs. 1,38,000 monthly.
You are in a tough phase now.
Your total EMI burden is Rs. 1,88,000 per month.
This is more than your salary.
That clearly shows a debt trap.
You are not alone. Many go through this.
But with strong steps, you can come out safely.
Let us now work on a 360-degree plan to regain control.
First, Accept the Reality with Calm
You are in a financial emergency.
This needs urgency, not panic.
You must stop all new borrowings now.
Borrowing more to pay EMIs will only worsen the trap.
A strong decision today helps your future.
Step 1: Prepare a Full Debt List
Write down every single loan and card.
Note principal, EMI, interest rate, and lender.
This includes all personal loans, credit cards, and dues.
Total it and understand where the pressure is coming from.
This gives you clarity and control.
Step 2: Categorise Loans by Urgency
Credit card debt is highest cost.
Personal loans are next priority.
Categorise like this:
High-interest (credit cards)
Medium-interest (personal loans)
Low or zero-interest (if any)
This tells you where to focus repayment first.
Step 3: Stop All EMI Auto-Debits Immediately
If your bank account is auto-debiting EMIs, pause it.
Let essential expenses like food, rent, and transport be safe.
Speak to banks and lenders.
Tell them about your cashflow issue.
Ask for a short break or restructuring.
Step 4: Approach Lenders and Request Settlement or Restructuring
Speak to each lender one by one.
Request EMI reduction, tenure extension, or one-time settlement.
Banks may agree to reduce interest or give grace periods.
If needed, give written letter with your salary slips.
Many banks offer restructuring under RBI guidelines.
This step is critical to stop the stress.
Step 5: Consider Consolidation Loan (Only After Advice)
Sometimes one loan can repay many small loans.
Interest may be lower than credit cards.
But this should be your last option.
And only after consulting a Certified Financial Planner.
Do not jump into it emotionally.
Step 6: Cut Lifestyle Expenses to Bare Minimum
Stop all subscriptions, dining out, gadgets, and shopping.
No vacations, new phones, or unnecessary travel.
Focus only on food, rent, power, and basic needs.
Even Rs. 5,000 saved monthly can go towards debt.
This lifestyle discipline will rebuild your foundation.
Step 7: Create an Emergency Survival Budget
Write your income and essential expenses.
Prioritise food, rent, utilities, transport.
See how much can be kept aside monthly for lenders.
This helps you build a negotiation base with banks.
Step 8: Sell Unused or Idle Assets
Do you have a second bike, gadgets, gold, or land?
Sell and repay part of loans immediately.
Even Rs. 1 lakh lump sum helps bring down credit card dues.
Don’t hold emotional value for things now.
Freedom from debt is worth more than any object.
Step 9: Get Help From Family or Trusted Friends
If your family or close friend can help, speak openly.
Don’t borrow, but ask for a support hand.
Explain the seriousness and give written repayment plan.
Use any help to pay off high-interest debt first.
Step 10: Increase Income Through Side Gigs
Try weekend freelance work or online skills.
Teach, write, design, or take delivery jobs.
Even Rs. 5,000 extra monthly can make a difference.
You are young and have time. Use it well.
Step 11: Stay Away From Credit Cards Completely
Credit cards give false comfort.
They multiply debt silently.
Cut and close them after full settlement.
Till then, avoid even swiping for Rs. 10.
Pay cash for all daily needs.
Step 12: Don’t Use Your Emergency Fund Yet
If you have one, keep it untouched.
Use it only for medical or survival situations.
Try to solve this debt issue with income and discipline.
Later, rebuild emergency savings as a priority.
Step 13: Get a Certified Financial Planner's Help
They can negotiate with banks for you.
They make proper repayment plans.
They guide on which loan to close first.
They also help protect your credit score.
Avoid solving this alone. You deserve expert help.
Step 14: Stay Strong Mentally and Emotionally
Don’t feel shame or guilt.
Health and family come first.
This is a temporary phase. It will pass.
But only if you stay calm and action-driven.
What Not to Do
Don’t take gold loan to pay credit card.
Don’t take payday apps or salary advances.
Don’t give up your job in stress.
These worsen your future. Choose logic, not emotion.
Final Insights
You are 29 and still very young.
But this situation needs action, not delay.
Debt of Rs. 1.88 lakh EMI on Rs. 1.38 lakh salary
is not sustainable.
You must reduce EMI or settle loans soon.
Pause all expenses. Talk to all lenders.
Start a new disciplined financial life.
With 12 to 18 months of focus, you can be free.
Then, you can invest and grow again.
Speak to a Certified Financial Planner today.
It is your first step towards peace.
Best Regards,
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,
www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment