Dear Mayank,
I work as a consultant and have applied for a new role at two different organisations. One is offering me a good compensation but I will have to relocate to a remote continent for two years. The other organisation is offering me lesser compensation but will require me to travel at least 3-4 days a week (but within the country and it can be quite exhausting.) I am confused because both jobs are exciting in their own way but will require me to stay away from my family. Pls help.

Ans:

Hi Geetu.

I think these specific inputs will help you take the right decision:

1. Many professionals are moving from metros to smaller towns for better quality of life.

2. Time with parents is invaluable.

3. Changing your job in these uncertain times is not advisable unless you are getting a dream job.

Your current roles seem to give you job satisfaction, market competitive salary and, above all, quality time with your family.

I would suggest that you make the most of it and continue with your current role.

Ans: I feel you need to be in a big town where your expertise is meaningful and there are organizations to absorb you. You should expand your search to Bangalore, Mumbai and Chennai and dont stick to Delhi alone.

Ans: Dear Manas,
What is it that you think troubles your wife when you are away on work tours? Does she feel lonely? Does she miss your presence a lot? This is something that you can find out from her and work on it.
Obviously you don't want to lose your job and if you must travel, then you must. She will slowly accept this as long as her need/ask/want when you are away is satisfied. If she does feel lonely, with smartphones video calls are possible and that can bring the two of you closer. If she feels the burden of managing the household all by herself, then hire a person who can help around with household chores. She can also start to focus on working from home (if the children are very young) which will ensure that she puts her skills to good use.
These are a few suggestions and you can pick off from here and come up with more solutions to work around the issue. Most times, the challenge is a small one and can be nipped in the bud. Figure out what is it that she is troubled with and put out suggestions and see what lights her up. It will be a WIN-WIN for both of you and the family.

All the best!
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Ans: Straightaway grab the new job and fly. Opportunity doesn't come for second time. Best of luck. Professor...............:)