Hello Ms Anu, I am 62 Divorced. My daughters 34 and 29 both have abandoned me cos my ex-wife. I have given them the best child hood, US education and properties ( all my savings of my entire tenure). It looks they are no more interested in me after I gave them. As a senior citizen when I filed at the tribunal to get back what I have gifted ( this is just a fraction of what I have given) , my daughters are filing a police complaint saying I am a dangerous man. Do you think daughters will realize their mistakes and will they come back to me? My ex is a criminal and she had multiple men in her life when we were not together. In spite of it I gave her everything. Anyway I don't expect anything from my ex-wife but I am concerned about my daughters. Apparently I also learn in spite of all those expensive education they are still unable to fins a respectable place in society as an independent human to sustain. It is a pity people call daughters as angels but for me they are the devils.
Ans: Dear P,
This is unfortunate that you have had to go through so much...
But how will you earn their love back with all that bitterness in your heart? I agree that it has hurt you a lot, but to put relationships back together, the first step is to soften down which means FORGIVENESS; very difficult BUT that's the only way for the ego to melt and anything positive to happen.
Are you willing to be the bigger person here and actually forgive your daughters and extend the hand of mending relationships? Think about it...
If they still exist as devils in your mind, nothing good will come out of it...but if you think of them as your daughters, a lot can change...But even after you make that effort, they are unwilling to change, then they are unfortunate...Let Go...
All the best!
Anu Krishna
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