hi
i have been into relationship with my bf for as long as 15 yrs.. we shared a beautiful relationship but he was never fulfilling his commitment towards marriage almost for 15 years he is just saying he will marry in the coming months but never in any month we got married everytime we use to book n dan he is to cancel the dates saying that he is scared want to wait for sometime... once he told me that due to age difference of 9 yrs (M older to him by 9 yrs) his family will not accept me...but still he is ready to get married to me n i was on his false promises ...But suddenly 4 months back he got married to someone else..and i was not aware of anything because he used to meet me everyday n suddenly one day i saw him as a bride groom getting married to someone.. i dont know now how to cope with this trauma.. i see myself dying everyday..i dont understand to what extent he has committed this crime..& y did he did this.. i used to give choice also to say yes or no but not to cheat in this way...
Ans: Hello Veena,
I understand how painful it can be. Please rest assured you lost nothing. A man like that can be no one's gain. Looking behind will not do you any good. There is no method to this madness; some people do not care if their actions hurt others. You will find no answer to your "why." Now, the only thing you can do is move on gracefully with your life. Make something out of it. It will be painful for some time, I am not going to lie. But every time you think "Why did he leave," just counter it with "Thank god he left." You do not deserve such a man; in fact, no one does. Remember that. It will help you through this tough time.
Best Wishes.
