Hi Anu
I had a crush and fantasy for a girl 13 years younger to me as she was my tuition student. Once we had intimacy when she was 15 and I was 28. Now I am 52 plus and she is 39 and married last year.
I accepted it when came to know about her marriage. But she met me last month by chance near her workplace. We are in same city. I am unmarried. She shared her contact with me and we had a healthy talk for 25 minutes at her workplace.
But now she is ignoring my calls and messages. I am in anxiety. What to do as I know its all at end now. Just resolve my issue
Ans: Dear Suneel,
You were plain lucky that no one found out that you were intimate with a minor. Things would have been nasty for you if you were exposed at that point in time...There was a teacher-student relationship and a line that you chose to cross.
Now that you are 52, isn't it about time to grow up and let her be? There's a reason why she's ignoring your calls and messages. Maybe she wants to be happily integrated into her world which is her family...
And also, it's time that you move on...If you expected a resolution to be winning her back, that would not be wise as she seems to have made it clear to you that she wants to be left alone. So, please just do that...it will keep offer you peace of mind at some point in your life and also allow her to be in her family in peace.
All the best!