I’m finding it difficult to handle my wife of late,
She is 45, may be pre menopausal symptoms I don’t know
Ans: Dear Pramod,
Why do you think you have to handle your wife?
Shouldn't you in fact, be together with your wife in the marriage? And the same goes for her as well.
If there are challenges in having free flow of communication between the two of you; the only way to enable this is to actually talk about it.
If you feel that it maybe perimenopausal, there is need for more understanding of what she might be going through. Also, it might be wise to physically rule out any vitamin deficiencies and check other health parameters that change after the age of 40 for a woman.
Be patient; she is the person you chose to marry...a phase of life never means the end of the world...it only means a slight change in the way you look at things to do better.
All the best!