Hi, i really need a boyfriend. I meet a guy and felt for him, can't get him out of my way. I really need him. Please help me to impress him.😒😣
Ans: Dear Debayati,
I am glad to hear you found someone worth putting in the effort. While there is no one-size-fits-all approach to impressing anyone, here are some general and proven ways to realistically impress someone:
• Don't force your feelings on him; let him fall for you because he wants to, not because you stressed him into doing so. Any relationship built on such foundations has ever worked out.
• Let him see your wit; emotionally-mature men like intelligent women who are not scared to put forward their opinion and challenge set ideas. Please don't play dumb; it is not attractive. And if your man thinks it's cute, you better reconsider your feelings for him.
• Be yourself. Overdoing and altering anything, be it the way you dress or the way you talk or your behavior in general will not help with impressing him. Instead, he will see a version of you that is made up and might or might not fall for that version; but it isn't you, and he isn't falling for you. So it's better you be yourself and see where it goes.
• Indulge him in talks about his interests and passions. Men have some interests that are known to bore most women, for instance, cricket. Talk about that topic and let him believe he has hit the jackpot by finding a woman who's interested in his passions.
• Humor and wit go hand in hand. Crack occasional jokes. Men, not unlike women, love to have a good laugh.
• Some flirting is healthy; send flirty texts once in a while, for instance, "You look cute," etc. Whatever you are comfortable with; the idea is to be present even when you aren't physically there with him.
Hope this helps.
