My wife was divorcee with a son of 4 years at the time of our marriage.I accepted her son as usual.But later on I lost my job than her behave changed now 15 years has gone to our marriage.we are staying apart for the last 7 years.Now many time she blocks my no.many times she rang up own her own.Now we are working different cities,please tell me how to ask her about her choice
Ans: Dear Umesh,
What choice are you referring to?
Staying apart with little or no communication can sour relationships. It only makes sense to meet and resolve these issues.
Are you both planning to rebuild your marriage OR go your separate ways?
How are you planning on caring for your son though he's all grown up now?
You will agree that a serious conversation on these points are necessary and once you both agree on how you want to take things forward, the confusions will go away and you will clearly know what to do and what not to. So, if she has not initiated that conversation, then please suggest one as soon as you can.
All the best!
Anu Krishna
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