Hello Dr. Anu, my younger sister (now 43) had epilepsy since she was 13 years of age. After several years of depression and epilepsy, with regular medication from neurolgist, she does not have occurance since last 8-10 years. Now the only medicine she take is Thyronorm 75. She is engaged in household work and does it diligently. However, she has lower confidence and does only as directed or taught. I need guidance from you from the perspective of her intellectual growth. When I ask her what she want to do for her future, she is blank. How can I help her? Are there counsellors in Mumbai who can coach and mentor for her growth. Please advise and also suggest how to go forward.
Ans: Dear Jayesh,
It's wonderful to hear that your sister is doing well now.
There are amazing coaches and counsellors in Mumbai who can mentor your sister on how to create a future for herself.
You can either search for an expert in this domain, over the Internet or go by recommendations within the family and friends' circle.
- Once you choose an expert, do make sure that you have a meeting/call with the expert in order to make aware of the situation at hand.
- Make sure that the expert is someone who can handle the situation with patience and also can enable your sister to take her own decisions through the process.
- Ensure that there is complete confidentiality through the process.
- Discuss fees or the amount to be paid for sessions right at the beginning.
- On your part, give the expert enough time to work with your sister without any interference which will enable the expert guide your sister appropriately.
All the best!
