I m married for last 10 years but i had a troubled marriage after 6 month of marriage. My wife behavior is very bad and aggressive.
I tried to save marriage due to my children but it is impacting his mental status. I want to move on kindly suggest
Ans: Dear Singh,
If nothing has changed in the past 10 years, then both of you have possibly just let it be. When something troubles the marriage and if it isn't addressed soon enough, it grows and becomes a sore point.
So, why not try and make it alright now?
There's something because of which your wife is the way she is with you. You may or may not be the cause but to save your marriage, find out from her what is causing her stress. She may not share with you; then suggest that she speak to someone that she can trust and that you are also willing to support her in this. It is likely that your support might help her calm down.
Also, it always takes one person to calm so that the other one also releases the anger and wants to do the right thing. I can only ask you to make a humble attempt at this.
All the best!