Hello Doctor,
My son aged 25 years reluctantly agreed to study abroad initially but his visa got rejected.He re applied again and again yet his his visa got rejected.Now he is desperate and does not sleep till early morning just thinking.I am getting worried for him.How do I convince him that there could be better things for him and he should not be negative
Ans: I can definitely understand your concern for your son, and I'm here to help. It sounds like your son has been going through a tough time with his visa applications being rejected repeatedly, and this can be really frustrating and disheartening.
First and foremost, it's important to acknowledge your son's feelings and let him know that you're there for him. It's completely normal to feel overwhelmed and stressed in a situation like this, and it's okay to take some time to process those emotions.
One thing you can do is encourage your son to take a break from the visa application process and do something he enjoys. This can help him relax and reduce his stress levels. You can also explore alternative options with him, such as studying in a different country or pursuing a different course.
It might also be helpful to discuss the reasons for the visa rejections with your son, so he can understand the areas he needs to work on before applying again. It's important to stay positive and optimistic during difficult times, and to remind your son that setbacks are a part of life, but with determination and hard work, he can overcome them.
If your son's stress levels continue to be high, it might be helpful to seek professional help. You can encourage him to speak to a therapist or a counselor who can provide him with tools to cope with stress and anxiety.
Remember, it's important to be patient and supportive during this time. With your help and encouragement, your son can overcome this setback and achieve his goals.
