Dear Love Guru,
I had a lovely relationship when I was younger but things did not work out for us.
Now, we are both married to different people.
I have a wonderful wife and we are very happy. She knows all about my past.
In the beginning of last year, my ex and I bumped into each other with our respective spouses.
The meeting was pleasant and we visited each other’s homes too. She has two cute little children.
Soon after, though, she started sending me messages about how she is missing ‘us’. Sometimes, the messages cross the line but subtly.
I ignored it for some time but it started becoming too much.
I have told my wife and blocked my ex but I fear she will still create trouble.
What should I do?
Akshay
Ans: Dear Akshay,
Stop letting this situation give you sleepless nights; I don’t think you have anything to worry about.
Your wife knows about your past.
You were also upfront with her about the messages your ex sent you, and then when they crossed the line you blocked her.
You’ve made all the right moves in handling the issue, so stop worrying.
It sounds like your wife and you share a strong bond and you’re both honest with each other; have confidence in your relationship.
What could your ex possibly do to create trouble?
I think after you’ve blocked her she must have got the hint loud and clear that you’re not interested in any extramarital dalliance with her.