My husband has been in a relationship with a woman for past 6yrs i came to know 3 yrs ago and confronted him.Initially he broke up with her but they came together again.Eqch time i confronted him he said to me you are my life and the relationship with the other woman is just a phase.It will die it's own death and then cries his heart out to stop me from leaving him.
Where do I stand ? What should I do to know it's ended forever.
Ans: I'm sorry to hear that you're going through this situation with your husband. It's understandable that you feel hurt and confused about where you stand in your relationship.
First and foremost, you have to prioritize your own well-being and happiness. You deserve to be in a relationship where you feel respected, loved, and secure. It's important to have a conversation with your husband and express your feelings about the situation. Let him know how his behavior has affected you and your relationship. Be clear about what you expect from him moving forward.
It's also important to set boundaries and make sure that they are respected. If you feel uncomfortable with him seeing or talking to the other woman, let him know that it's not acceptable. Consider seeking the help of a couples therapist or a marriage counselor to work through the issues in your relationship and communicate effectively.
Ultimately, it's up to your husband to end the relationship with the other woman and commit to your marriage. If he continues to choose the other woman over you, it may be time to reevaluate your relationship and decide what's best for you in the long run. Remember, you deserve to be happy and have a fulfilling relationship.
