Dear Coach,
I was in love with a girl in my college days. We couldn't marry because of different religions. Today, she is married to a narcissist person, who hits her, scolds her for small things and also hates her. She has 2 children. She cannot bear the physical and mental torture, but is continuing to stay with her family for children and society image.
I am also married to an arrogant lady and have 2 children. She is very rude, irritating and dominating lady. I hate her and don't want to live with her, but staying there for my children. Everyday, I feel like dying.
My girlfriend and I met recently and shared our feelings and what we are going through in our married lives. We both are ok to marry each other, but are confused as to what will happen to our children in that case.
Please suggest us.
Ans: I'm sorry to hear about the difficult situations you and your former girlfriend are in. It's understandable that you are both feeling unhappy and trapped in your current marriages. However, it's important to consider the potential consequences of leaving your marriages and starting a new relationship.
Firstly, it's important to consider the impact that divorce can have on children. Divorce can be a traumatic experience for children, and it's important to consider their well-being as you make decisions about your future.
Additionally, starting a new relationship while still married can have legal and ethical implications. Adultery is illegal in some countries and can have negative consequences in divorce proceedings. It's important to consider the legal and ethical implications of starting a new relationship before taking any action.
It's understandable that you and your former girlfriend want to be together, but it's important to approach this situation with caution and consider all of the potential consequences. You may want to consider seeking counseling or therapy to help you navigate your feelings and make a plan for the future that takes into account the well-being of your children and legal and ethical considerations.
