I am Srabani Sengupta. May hindi me bol rahi hu..I am divorced..matriarchal ap se mijhe 2 jiban sathi mila ..but I can't decide who is the best..1 hay Bank profession jiske sath bohot hi bate hoti hay
.wnd hay wk Doctor jiske sath utna bate nehi hoti..2no hi mujhe chahate hay.
Ans: Dear Srabani,
Dono aapko chahte hai ka matlab kya hai? Kya unhone aapko yeh saaf bataaya hai ya yeh aapki icccha hai jis par aapne sach maanna shuru kar diya hai?
Pehle apne aap se pooch lo ki ek jeevan saathi mein aap kya chahte ho? Tabhi toh jab ladkon se milne ki baari aati hai, aap parakh sakti ho ki kitne aapke aur unke khayalaat milte julte hain. Aur divorce ke baad yeh toh aap jaanti hi hain ki kis vishay mein aap bilkul hi samjhauta nahin kar sakti.
Baatein kijiye dono ke saath par hamesha yeh dhyaan rahe, ki sirf baaton se jeevan saathi chunna hota toh bahut asaan hota. Khayaal, pasand-naapasand aur bahut khaas baat yahi ki aap kiske saath khud ko paati hain? Kiske saath aap, bilkul aap reh sakti hain? Jahaan hum khud ko doosre ke liye badal de, wahaan hum koi aur jaate hain aur yeh rishta lambaa nahin jaata...
Ab aap samajh hi gayi hongi ki woh aapko chahte hain se kaam nahin chalega, yeh bhi tay kar lijiye ki aapki kitni ehmiyat hai unke zindagi mein.
All the best!