I m 43 old male , looks ten year younger.sinc3 last 3 months i m infatuated with colleague 30 yr married lady with child .I m continuously thinking about her,her looks,her habits,her choice,her
,hobbies 24 hrs ,even in sleep like a teenager.I dont know how to overcome it.Her attitude is normal ,pure professional with me without any indication of liking.
I don't know how to overcome?
Ans: Dear Singh,
What's the point being obsessed with a person who has nothing to do with you?
Respect where she is in her life and more importantly, respect your life, your time and energy.
Focus on things that can help you not just manage your mind, but can add value to your personal and professional life. For example: A hobby, working out, doing a certification course and so on...
What you focus on multiplies and when you focus on something that yields nothing, it's like pouring water in the desert hoping for it to turn into a farmland. So, treat yourself better and start this very moment, NOW!
All the best!