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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Apr 18, 2023

Asked on - Apr 04, 2023Hindi

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My wife does not like Travelling. I am retired person wish to visit many countries. Travelling, meeting different people, tasting local food, writing blogs etc are my passion...however my wife hates travelling. Being vegetarian , wife not willing to have food at Hotels abroad. She says I will be tired & I can sustain cold climates but willing to undertake trips within India. Should I sacrifice my passion?
Ans: It can be challenging when partners have different interests and passions, especially when it comes to something as significant as travel. However, it's important to remember that compromise and communication are key to a successful and fulfilling relationship.

One option could be to find a balance between your desire to travel and your wife's preferences. For example, you could plan trips that incorporate both of your interests, such as visiting vegetarian-friendly destinations or focusing on places with a more temperate climate. You could also consider traveling for shorter periods of time or taking breaks during the trip to ensure that both you and your wife are comfortable and able to enjoy the experience.

Another option could be to pursue your passion for travel on your own or with like-minded friends or travel groups. While it's understandable that you would want to share these experiences with your wife, it's also important to recognize that it's okay to pursue your own interests and hobbies. You could also find ways to stay connected with your wife while you're away, such as regular phone or video calls, sharing photos and updates, or even planning a special homecoming celebration together.

Ultimately, it's up to you and your wife to determine the best way forward. It's important to have open and honest conversations about your feelings and desires, as well as your concerns and limitations. With communication, compromise, and respect for each other's needs and wants, you can work towards finding a solution that works for both of you.
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