Dear Aruna, My child is 16.5 year old and is in 12th Standard. He wanted to pursue JEE and hence we got him admitted to a school who has integrated program where along with CBSE they impart JEE training as well. They also had a hostel facility. We had shifted him to this hostel during his 11th after lot of thinking as he used to waste lot of time gaming and hanging around with his friends...he had got 78% in his 11th and this was because he stayed in the hostel. Now he is saying that he will not go back to the hostel at all and prepare at home. But he does not seem to be serious at all...he has been gaming, hanging around with his friends etc.When asked about all this he says that he is well ware and will do the needful..Off late he started saying that he is not interested in doing JEE and make basket ball as his career...we as parents are very confused...I even have fights with my son because of this...Please advise what needs to be done. I would like that he rejoins hostel as this would make him disciplined and responsible...It is important that he completes his 12th standard with good marks and i feel that staying back home is not going to help at all. he is intelligent and teachers appreciate him a alot..he is also talented but is wasting lots of time...he says that he knows everything and no one need to tell him anything. Whenever he hears abt hostel he gets irritated. This hostel does not allow mobile phones or any electronic gadgets at all.

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Ans: HI!!
The way you have stated your needs so clearly shows that you have good writing skills, so no doubts about your writing skills.

In the message you mentioned that you quit your job in 2021 and yet you say you are not enjoying work since the last couple of months. A little confusion there for me, I am assuming you are still working. You also mention that you did pretty well professionally, this shows a mind that can work well even when it not totally into the work heart and soul. Try to find positive reasons around your work.
You are 44 you said, at this age we all are at loggerheads with what we studied, what we are doing for a living and what we are passionate about! I have been there..

I need to say a little about myself in order to answer your question. I am an Engineer too, today I am Image Consultant and a Soft Skills Trainer. I used to work with one of the top telecom companies, my Mentor there used to say an Engineer can do anything and me and you are proving that. You are a BE, MBA and you have exceptional writing skills.

As a public speaking skills coach I used to write speeches for clients and help them deliver with panache. One of my long standing clients said no to the classes after I increased the fees. Where did she get her strength from to say no?....AI and Chatgpt, even though she always said it doesn't have the AD (Archana Deshpande) effect!! Why I am mentioning such a personal incident is to help you understand the scenario today.
You want to write good stuff and earn money too, rt? You don't want that typical content writer kind of jobs... so what I suggest is that since a BE MBA is a deadly combo and you are an intelligent man, pls continue to use these to earn money. I want you to google, "platforms for writers to make money" and check all your options, for sometime write and publish on various platforms, send it to various newspapers, see how people respond to you. I know your joy comes from writing so go for it on a day to day basis, schedule it everyday. When you continue to do tasks that bring you joy, your doing all the things that are compulsory becomes easy( like going to office). Test the waters before you quit your well paying job( and yourself mentioned you are doing pretty well). Plan to write a book on a subject that comes easily to you or a book of short stories around your experiences. Today Mrs Sudha Murthy is a celebrated writer, look at her journey as writer, it didn't happen overnight. There is no ASAP here. You want to become a writer professionally, take it slow, start writing, start publishing you work, gauge the readers reaction, keep writing, keep reinventing, it's a creative process, let it flow through you without the stress of earning money through it.... it's joy for you to write, let it remain so!! Create a beautiful space at home to allow the creative juices to flow, continue to write everyday. Apart form writing, check what else brings you joy, on a day to day basis consciously spend time doing things that bring you joy. Enthusiasm/energy for life comes from your joy list. I am listing so many things because you mentioned you are not enjoying your job. I want you to arrive at a place where you enjoy your job( it pays your bills and takes care of your family) and continue to work on stuff you are passionate about. It can be done by living a little consciously and joyously, a little shift in the mindset can do wonders!!
All the very best!!

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Ans: Thank you for getting in touch with me on Rediff Gurus. If your son is interested in pursuing a career in the civil services and preparing for the UPSC (Union Public Service Commission) exams despite scoring 68 percent in his 12th grade PCM (Physics, Chemistry, Mathematics) from CBSE, then he should start building a strong foundation in core subjects and gradually expanding his knowledge of current affairs, history, geography, polity, economy, and other relevant topics to clear exam. It is a long-term process that requires consistent effort and dedication hence, encourage your son to start preparing early by familiarizing himself with the UPSC exam pattern, syllabus, and previous years' question papers.

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Ans: Thank you for reaching out to me on Rediff Gurus. It's great that you have clear goals for your career and passion for acting and modeling. Pursuing a high-paying job to support your passion while also ensuring financial independence is a wise approach. You can start your career in sales and marketing that could align with your objectives. Sales and marketing roles often offer competitive salaries, commissions, and bonuses, providing you with the financial stability to pursue your passion for modeling and acting. You can use your earnings to cover expenses such as acting classes, modeling portfolios, photo shoots, and audition fees. Many sales and marketing positions offer flexibility in terms of work hours and remote work options. This flexibility can allow you to balance your job responsibilities with auditions, rehearsals, and other commitments related to modeling and acting. It involves building relationships with clients, customers, and industry professionals. Through networking events, conferences, and client meetings, you can expand your professional network and make connections in the entertainment industry. These connections can open doors to modelling and acting opportunities, such as referrals to talent agencies or casting directors as well. Best of luck! Feel free to contact me on Rediff Gurus if you need further assistance or help.

Ans: Thank you for reaching out to me on Rediff Gurus. It's understandable that your daughter may be feeling frustrated by the job search process in the United Kingdom, especially given her impressive educational background. She should actively search for job openings on online job portals, company websites, and recruitment agencies specializing in her field in the United Kingdom. She can create profiles on job search websites, upload her resume, and set up job alerts to receive notifications about relevant job opportunities. Encourage her to expand her professional network abroad. She can connect with alumni from her university, attend industry events, join relevant professional groups on LinkedIn, and participate in networking activities to build connections and explore job opportunities. By taking these proactive steps to enhance her job search, expand her network, and stay engaged in her field, your daughter can increase her chances of finding a rewarding job opportunity in the UK. Best of luck! Feel free to contact me on Rediff Gurus if you need further assistance or help.

Ans: Thank you for getting in touch with me on Rediff Gurus. Your daughter has a strong educational background in finance, management & technology, and she should now expand her job search beyond online job portals by exploring company websites, industry-specific job boards, and professional associations. Encourage her to target specific companies or industries where her skills and experience are in demand and ask her to follow up on job applications with personalized messages expressing her interest and enthusiasm. While searching for a permanent position, she may also consider temporary or freelance work in her field. It will provide valuable experience, expand her network, and potentially lead to full-time opportunities. She can get work on websites like LinkedIn, Upwork, Freelancer, and Flex Jobs which offers freelance opportunities in finance, consulting, and technology. By leveraging her skills, network, and resources better, your daughter can increase her chances of finding a rewarding job opportunity that aligns with her career aspirations and goals. Please motivate her to stay focused on her core expertise, and keep moving forward in her job search journey. If you have any specific questions or need further advice, feel free to ask me on Rediff Gurus

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