My wife posts everything on social media. Earlier she used to post about food and travel and our kids. Now if we have a fight or argument, she turns it into a funny reel or feminism post and everyone on her feed starts commenting. I am not on social media but when we meet socially, our common friends have started making fun of me like I am the villain. She calls herself an influencer and says it is helping her reach a wider audience. I told her she shouldn't post without my permission and it is leading to big arguments. I feel it is unfair. What should I do? Please help me sir

My partner is regularly stalking me on Instagram. She reads all my posts and messages and wants to discuss every comment I make. I think she is jealous and insecure about my relationships with friends, especially females. I love her and don't want to lose her. But every time we have a discussion, we end up fighting and she wants to break up with me because she thinks I am cheating on her, which is not true.

Hi Mr Ravi. My wife has this annoying habit of coming in the way of my friends. Whenever I step out of home, she will call me back with some excuse. She wants to know where I go, who I meet. If I tell her she doesn't let me meet my friends. Naturally, I have become secretive now. I only tell her that I am stepping out. I don't tell her where, or who I meet. I have stopped calling my friends home. I have tried telling her to go and hang out with her friends but she won't do that either. I don't understand why she wants me around all the time. Is it wrong to hang out with friends after marriage? How do I make her explain?

Anu Hi. I'm in a really stressful situation and I don't know how to handle it. A few years ago, I was in a relationship with a woman who turned out to be extremely manipulative and possessive. I ended things with her long before I met my wife. I've moved on completely and I'm happily married now. But my ex hasn't. I recently discovered that she has been stalking my wife on social media, creating fake accounts, and even sending her threatening messages. Some of them are nasty and borderline disturbing. She is sharing details about our past relationship that are not relevant. My wife is scared and upset, and it's starting to create unnecessary tension between us. She's beginning to question my past and wonder why this woman still feels entitled to harass her. I really don't want to involve the police or escalate this legally. I want to avoid drama, because I'm also worried it might provoke my ex even further. I just want this to stop. I'm trying to protect my marriage and my wife's peace of mind, but I feel helpless. My wife doesn't respond to her but the details still bother her. What is the right way to handle this without making it worse? How do I reassure my wife, and is there a non-legal way to make my ex back off for good? Am I wrong for trying to avoid police action in a situation like this?

My GF is upset I don't post her pictures on social media. I am an introvert and I rarely use social media but she feels that I am not happy around her. I don't understand the point of clicking happy pictures. I am happy spending time with her. I am comfortable around my GF but she likes to dress up, go on dates and click pictures which I find very annoying sometimes. I like to keep some things personal and private but she is the opposite. How to convince her that this is who I am? If we click pics, I look uncomfortable and then she complains that she has nothing to post on social media.