Thanks for your response. I had consulted a psychiatrist few years back but her prescibed medicines did not help. My wife used to feel sleepy and her hands used to go numb. Also the doctor had prescribed a shock treatment which I did not agree. Nevertheless I will again go for an experienced doctor for couple therapy together. My wife does not like even when we consult female doctors. I stay in Thane, Maharashtra, do you recommend any MALE doctors in this place who I can approach. Please advise & Thanks once again !

Ans: It's not uncommon for individuals to experience changes in libido as they age, and various factors can contribute to a decrease in sexual desire. Discuss your feelings with your wife. Open communication is crucial in any relationship, especially when it comes to intimacy. Share your concerns and listen to hers Evaluate your lifestyle habits, including diet, exercise, and stress levels. Regular physical activity can improve overall well-being and may positively impact sexual function. A balanced diet and adequate sleep are also important for maintaining good health Explore new ways to connect intimately with your partner that may not necessarily involve traditional intercourse. Focus on building emotional intimacy, and try activities that bring you closer as a couple Remember that each person's experience is unique, and what works for one may not work for another. It's crucial to approach this issue with patience, empathy, and a willingness to work together with your partner to find solutions that enhance your overall relationship. If needed, a healthcare professional or therapist can offer tailored advice based on your specific situation.

PS. I am based in Delhi

Ans: Dear Anilkumar,
Clearly there is a mismatch in what you want and what she wants. So, taking her for medical treatment means that you might also need it...
Instead of this blame game, why don't you try and find out the reason for this lack of interest. Maybe it is tiredness of the day and also if you demand everyday, she might come up with some excuse or the other. Sex is not a mechanical activity; it requires a lot of emotional connection between two people which means you and your wife have to connect better emotionally for sex to happen. New thing for you maybe...but rather than blame her for disturbing daily life, try and be more kind to understand what is exactly bothering her. LISTEN and not DEMAND...
Simply listening and helping her through it might help her become warm towards you and things may improve...

All the best!