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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Jun 24, 2025

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Bhoomika Question by Bhoomika on Jun 11, 2025Hindi
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hi mam please help me i was in relashionship for 1 year with a boy. we broke up after a huge fight it has been 6 months of our brokeup but he backmails me to leak my private pics and show them to my parents. although he blackmails me only once after that i blocked him from everywhere but he calls me daily with different numbers i didnot responded him at all . but he sounded like pscho he start messageging my frds and share my chats to them . i am so afraid of him i can not tell to my parents as my parents are not that open and very strict. i always start overthing please help me how to get out of it

Ans: Dear Bhoomika,
You cannot do anything yourself as it will involve the police. So, please talk to your parents and go to the police. The boy will have to be caught and given a proper warning...

All the best!
Anu Krishna
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Hii mam my ex boyfriend is hacker i never seen him or meet him it was long distance relationship he had my lot of picture I like other guy and want to stay with him but that creep torture me every single day I'm feeling suicidel cuz of this mental pressure he said he'll send my intimate picture to my parents and other family member i don't know where he lives now does he look his exact contact number cuz he used fake number and all I'm so stressed mam please help me
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
You are bothered by a creep who you haven't even met?
Inform the police and the case will most likely be registered as a cyber bullying/harassment. (You can get more information from the cops on this). You do not need to know where he lives etc, just keep a trail of all communication that you have had with him intact as proof.
And hey, he was never your boyfriend and there was no relationship; you were not involved with someone that you have not seen or met. This is real life and not some fiction story...So, get real, shake yourself from this great 'involvement' theory. He is a person who possibly is used to threatening and blackmailing women/girls...Simply go to the police with all the proof and let them do their job. Now is the time to be brave and stand up for yourself...

This should become a lesson to you that you DO NOT share private information with anyone over the net, chats or any other electronic media...

All the best!
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Sir - Kindly enlighten me whether SIP or onetime lumpsum investment is the best, while investing in MFs . Thank you.
Ans: It is good that you are thinking about the investment method rather than simply investing. The answer is that both SIP and lump sum have their place, depending on your financial situation and market conditions.

» When SIP May Be Better

SIP is suitable when you receive income monthly.
It brings investment discipline.
It reduces the risk of investing a large amount just before a market correction.
It helps average out the purchase cost over time.
It is particularly useful for long-term goals such as retirement, children's education, and wealth creation.

For most salaried investors, SIP is usually the preferred route because investments happen gradually alongside regular income.

» When Lump Sum May Be Better

Lump sum investing can be considered when you receive a large amount at one time, such as a bonus, inheritance, gift, retirement benefit, or sale proceeds from an asset.
If you have a long investment horizon and the money is not required for many years, a lump sum investment may create greater wealth because the entire amount starts compounding immediately.
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» Which Has Created More Wealth Historically?

Over long periods, markets generally move upward despite temporary corrections.
Therefore, when a sizeable amount is already available, lump sum investing has often produced better results than spreading the same money over many months.
The reason is simple: more money remains invested for a longer period.

However, this advantage comes only when the investor can tolerate market volatility.

» A Practical Approach

For monthly savings from salary, continue through SIPs.
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SIP is not superior to lump sum in every situation.
Lump sum is not superior to SIP in every situation.
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Lump sum is suitable when a large amount is already available for long-term investment.
The best strategy is often a combination of both, depending on the source of money and your comfort with market fluctuations.

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