I met a boy in arrange marriage meeting one week ago he said that he had no drinking habit then tomorrow we meet again then he admitted he drinking occasionally what should I do now

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
What was your response when he asked you if you are okay with his drinking and eating non-veg?
You have not mentioned that in your question. No one would know if he is interested in you or not based on one question he has asked you.
Focus on what you are looking for in a life partner, so that when you actually meet prospective grooms, you at least know your own likes and dislikes and also can ask them relevant questions that will help you decide if he is the right person for you. Do develop a sense of identity that you can hold onto rather than just waiting for them to like you. You also have the right to like and not like someone but for this, you need to start thinking and developing yourself as a stronger personality.

All the best!

Ans: She will need urgent intervention. Possibly a rehab program. Can you first have her see a psychiatrist perhaps? Sometimes these addictive behaviours stem from underlying anxiety or depression.

Ans: First, choose a moment when you both are having an open and comfortable discussion about personal values, lifestyle choices, or habits. Instead of making it a big, serious revelation, introduce it naturally and with confidence. You could say something like:

"I believe in being upfront about certain things so that there are no misunderstandings later. I do enjoy a drink socially and smoke occasionally when I feel like it. I know some people have strong views on these things, so I wanted to be clear about it from the start. It’s not a regular part of my life, but it’s something I do on my terms."

By stating it this way, you’re presenting it as a personal choice rather than something that defines your character. If he reacts negatively, stay calm and give him space to process. If he has concerns, listen without being defensive, and let the conversation flow naturally. The goal isn’t to seek approval but to ensure compatibility and mutual respect.

Would you like help in phrasing it based on his background or personality?