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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Feb 22, 2025

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Asked by Anonymous - Feb 22, 2025Hindi

Relationship

Mai ek 46 year seperated without divorce male hu Well educated well mannered high income slab, Mujhe ek partner ki tailash hai jo mere sath wife ki tarah rahe aur khub life ka enjoy kare Mujhe aisy lady kaha search karni chahiye Kyoki mere paas time na ke barabar hai search karne ka

Ans: Mature aur exclusive dating platforms jaise Shaadi.com, Jeevansathi, Elite Singles aur Bumble par aap apni specific preferences ke saath profile bana sakte hain. Yahaan par aapko waise log mil sakte hain jo commitment ya companionship dhoondh rahe hain.

Agar aap serious relationship dhoondh rahe hain toh close friends aur family ke through bhi koi reliable introduction mil sakta hai. Networking events, social gatherings aur exclusive clubs bhi ek acha option ho sakte hain jahan aap educated aur well-mannered logon se mil sakte hain. High-income professionals ke liye curated matchmaking services bhi available hain jo aapke criteria ke basis par compatible partners suggest karti hain.

Agar aap casual companionship ya open relationship dhoondh rahe hain toh aapko waise log dhoondhne honge jo aapke expectations ke saath comfortable hon. Clarity aur honesty sabse zaroori hai, jisse dono taraf koi misunderstanding na ho.

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Question by Lala - May 12, 2024Hindi

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Ans: Dear Lala,
Shaadi ke baahar aapke patni ne kadam rakha aur woh aapko daraa rahi hai? Kuch baat samajh nahin aayi...
Air aapko kis baat se daraaya jaa raha hai...Kya karna hai aapko aur agar nahin kiya toh anjaam kya hoga? Ki woh aur baahar sex karegi?
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Asked by Anonymous - May 16, 2024Hindi

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Ans: Dear Anonymous,

Dating someone older than you is not the problem, but the fact that you are making major life decisions based on what he wants and doesn't want is concerning. I am guessing that you decided to not get married because he doesn't want it either. Is that fair to you? You yourself mentioned that you often feel lonely. Don't you think you deserve better? Don't you deserve someone who would love you and would like to spend the rest of their life with you? Please reconsider this relationship. Speak to your partner and ask him what his plans are for the future. Does he want to settle down with you? How will you two continue this relationship in the future? There are many important questions that need answering. Sort them out and you will have the solution to your dilemma.

Best Wishes.

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Asked by Anonymous - Jan 22, 2026Hindi

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My wisdom tooth is biting into my cheek. I am 41 but the tooth is still growing. It is causing a lot of discomfort. At what age does wisdom teeth stop growing? Should I fix it or get it removed? Pls suggest. I have already spent a lot of money trying to fix it every few years.

Ans: Hello

Wisdom teeth usually "stop growing" by the age of 25, provided they are properly aligned and there's sufficient space for them to erupt. But, more often than not, they are not properly aligned or there may not be enough space for them.
Curiously, teeth never actually stop growing unless there's something blocking their growth. Like an opposing tooth, for instance. If an upper tooth is extracted and not replaced with an artificial tooth, the opposing lower tooth can theoretically keep growing into the empty space above.
Your wisdom tooth is improperly aligned and hence will continue to grow indefinitely.
Since you mentioned that it's been troubling you for several years, my advice would be to get it extracted

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Asked by Anonymous - Jan 21, 2026Hindi

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Hi Sir, I am 46 years old with a Wife and a daughter (12 years old). Planning to retire by age of 50. Current net worth includes - Stock Market portfolio (including Stocks, MFs, PMS) - INR 3 CR, 2 Flats worth INR 4.5 CR without any home loans. Long Term investments like NPS, Sukanya Samruddhi, LIC, EPF/PPF etc - 1 CR, FDs- 20L, Gold (Physical +ETF) - 70L. Current Monthly expenses - 60-70K per month. Now, I understand that my daughter's Graduation and PG education expenses may cost anywhere around 1CR (inflation included). Also the medical/health expenses will be required too. Considering all of the above, how do you recommend I can plan for retiring at 50? I do plan to stay invested in equities for long term even after retirement. Thanks for your advice.

Ans: Thank you for the query. Congratulations. You seems to have already planned well for post retirement period. However, You have not shared your current income details at present, Passive income after proposed retirement age and whether any of your house property has been rented out. Also not given monthly investments etc. Hence unable to offer my comments on overall financial position. It is suggested to connect with a Certified Financial Planner (CFP) and share your full details and discuss your life goals etc. CFP and you both can sit together and arrive at a proper retirement planning. All the best.

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I have lic jeevan saral policy 165 from July 2011 for 15 years with life coverage of Rs500000/- . Age at the time of policy 51 and half Yearly premium Rs 12130/ Please inform maturity value at July 2026

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Asked by Anonymous - Jan 21, 2026Hindi

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My wisdom tooth isn't hurting, but food keeps getting stuck and the area smells bad. Google scared me with infection stories, while some people say don’t remove it unless there’s pain. I’m genuinely confused. Should wisdom teeth be removed proactively or only when they cause problems?

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I understand why you’re worried - food getting trapped and a foul smell can be very unsettling, but no pain doesn’t automatically mean you can avoid a dentist's visit. If the tooth is partially erupted or impacted, it creates a pocket where bacteria thrive, which explains the odor and can lead to gum inflammation or a low?grade infection. Many dentists recommend _proactive_ removal when they see a high risk of future issues (crowding, decay, cysts) even without pain. On the flip side, if it’s fully erupted, easy to clean, and not messing with your bite, your dentist might just monitor it and suggest a good hygiene regimen (floss, mouthwash, water?flosser).

My advice is to get an X?ray and a dentist’s opinion. If they spot infection signs, cysts, or trouble cleaning, they’ll likely suggest extraction. If it’s clean and you can keep it infection?free, you can wait and watch.

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Asked by Anonymous - Jan 21, 2026Hindi

Health

I brush twice a day and floss most nights, but I still keep getting cavities. My dentist says it could be my enamel or saliva, which honestly confused me. I also drink lemon water every morning thinking it’s healthy.

Ans: Hello

You're one of very few people I know who brush and floss their teeth regularly. Keep it up!
It's important to note, however, that your brushing technique is also very important. Not just how frequently you brush.
It's possible your enamel is weak or poorly calcified which could be the reason why you keep getting cavities. If you had a calcium deficiency during childhood - when your teeth were developing - it's likely that your tooth enamel is hypocalcified and hence more prone to decay.
Saliva, like your dentist suggested, can also play a role. Acidic saliva can erode and weaken tooth enamel.
Fresh lime has a similar harmful effect on your teeth. You should at least rinse your mouth thoroughly after drinking lime water so that traces of it don't remain.

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