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Akanshi Question by Akanshi on Jun 13, 2025Hindi
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Hlo mam my name is harpreet kaur and I love aa person whos name is ArjunSehgal we have intercaste problem my parents says that no matter how big job he have we will not do intercaste mariage now what to do mam pls tell

Ans: Dear Akanshi,
Now if parents don't agree, what can you do? They may have their reasons to say NO but to counter that NO, do you have anything to tell them? What is the reason that you love him? His caring nature, his value systems, his determination towards career and life? Tell your parents about these things and maybe they will change their mind.
By the way, how old are the two of you? Financial independence can help you have a stronger argument in front of your parents as well.

All the best!
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Ans: Dear Gundoji,
I am still confused; does your boyfriend want to be married to you or not...if he is backing out, there is little that you can do!
If the two of you are serious about marriage, 2 things must be achieved before that:
1. Your boyfriend has to get involved in managing your family's expectations
2. You start to find a way to get financially independent

When these two points are taken care of, there is little opposition that you may face and even if you do, it will be handled better by both of you.

All the best!
Anu Krishna
Mind Coach|NLP Trainer|Author
Drop in: www.unfear.io
Reach me: Facebook: anukrish07/ AND LinkedIn: anukrishna-joyofserving/

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