Hi mam.I had one year relationship with a boy which we have already decided to be temporary as we are not into marriage.After a year am engaged to somebody and now he is blackmailing me with our pictures that he will share to our family members and my fiancee to stop this marriage.I have been in this trauma from the past 4 months and every day he is blackmailing me regarding the marriage.I am from orthodox family.Please help me how to deal with this.I feel suicidal and tried to take my life for two times.

Ans: Hello.
To appear for JEE (Adv) you have to clear first JEE (Main). It will be difficult for you to match with the syllabus after a huge gap of 2 years. But nothing is impossible. If you qualify in JEE (Main) cutoff, you certainly can appear for JEE (Adv)

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Ans: Hi
Here are some key points a student must try to follow-
(1) Build Strong Technical Skills in C++, Python, and Java, and Practice on LeetCode, HackerRank, and Codeforces. Work on OS, DBMS, Networking, and OOPs.. Try to gain proficiency in front-end (HTML, CSS, JavaScript) and back-end technologies (Node.js, Django).
(2) Focus on Competitive Coding like CodeChef, HackerRank, or Google Kickstart
(3) Work on Projects for web development, AI, or mobile apps
(4) Create an attractive LinkedIn profile. Attend tech webinars, hackathons, and coding contests to connect with industry peers.
(5) Use platforms like Internshala, AngelList, LinkedIn, and company career portals to search for internships.
(6) Practice mock coding interviews and aptitude tests on platforms like InterviewBit or Pramp to prepare for campus placement interviews.
To some students who enjoyed a lot in their engineering for 3 years, it seems to be difficult. But simple for those who worked hard since 1st year and focussed on the syllabus and extracurricular learning activities.

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Ans: Hi Ismah

From the 8th standard, you can join foundation classes for the preparation of NEET classes. If not possible, no need to worry. You can also start preparation from the 11th. With full 2-year preparation (11th and 12th), you can crack the NEET.

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Ans: HI Arun

You have three choices (1) Amrita Engineering Coimbatore (2) Amrita Engineering Faridabad and (3) Manipal.

Suggestion: Manipal MIT has an edge regarding global exposure and infrastructure. All are top institutions, but Manipal offers more global exposure, while Amrita focuses on research and ethics.

Please decide as per your convenience, and distance. Please compare the fee structure of all the institutions.

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Ans: Hi.
The question is not asked properly. Hence unable to guide you.
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Ans: Hi Divit
You made a good choice with ECE at IIIT Naya (i.e. New) Raipur because:

1) ECE has wider career opportunities in the tech and IT sectors.
2) IIITs specialize in electronics and computing.
3) ECE offers flexibility to transition into IT roles, which are in demand.

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Ans: Hi Divit
You made a good choice with ECE at IIIT Naya (i.e. New) Raipur because:

1) ECE has wider career opportunities in the tech and IT sectors.
2) IIITs specialize in electronics and computing.
3) ECE offers flexibility to transition into IT roles, which are in demand.

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Ans: To reach a corpus of Rs 1 crore in 10 years, you will need to invest in funds that generate around 10-12 per cent annual returns. Your current portfolio is diversified across small-cap, mid-cap, digital, and active funds, which can work well but also carries some volatility, especially in sectoral and small-cap/mid-cap funds.

Portfolio Review:

• Canara Robeco Small Cap Fund: Good for aggressive growth but highly volatile. Keep it if you're comfortable with higher risk.
• PGIM Mid Cap Opportunities Fund: Another growth-oriented fund with decent potential. It's good to have some exposure to mid-caps.
• Tata Digital Fund: Sectoral funds are risky because they are dependent on the sector's performance. Digital/technology funds can be volatile; consider reducing exposure here.
• Quant Active Fund: A multi-cap approach with flexibility across market caps. This fund provides balance and is good for diversification.

Suggestions:

• Increase Allocation to Large Cap/Index Funds: You may want to balance your portfolio with a large-cap or index fund like UTI Nifty 50 or Mirae Asset Large Cap Fund. Large-cap funds provide stability and reduce overall portfolio volatility.
• Reduce Sector-Specific Exposure: Consider trimming your allocation to Tata Digital Fund, as sectoral funds can face prolonged underperformance during sector downturns. You can reallocate this to a more diversified fund.
• Balanced Fund: Add a balanced or hybrid fund like HDFC Balanced Advantage Fund or ICICI Prudential Balanced Advantage Fund for better risk management while maintaining growth potential.
• Debt Component: To hedge against equity risk, consider adding a small portion to a short-term debt fund or gilt fund, which can provide stability during volatile periods.

Suggested Structure After Increase:

• Canara Robeco Small Cap Fund: Rs 6,000
• PGIM Mid Cap Opportunities Fund: Rs 6,000
• Quant Active Fund: Rs 6,000
• Mirae Asset Large Cap Fund: Rs 6,000
• HDFC Balanced Advantage Fund: Rs 6,000
• ICICI Prudential Multi Asset Fund: Rs 5,000
• UTI Nifty 50 Index Fund: Rs 5,000

This adjusted allocation will maintain growth potential while providing a cushion against volatility.

Ans: It’s really commendable that you're seeking ways to improve communication with your daughters, especially when it comes to handling mistakes or weaknesses. The goal you're aiming for—creating a supportive environment where they feel safe to share their challenges—is a key part of nurturing a healthy and open relationship.

When addressing their mistakes, it’s important to remember that how they interpret your feedback can shape how they see themselves and their ability to handle difficulties. You want them to feel like they’re not being judged or criticized but instead being guided towards growth. One way to start is by focusing on empathy in your conversations. When they make a mistake, it’s natural to want to correct it quickly, but it can be more productive to begin by acknowledging how they might feel. This lets them know that you understand their experience, and that mistakes are part of life and learning. It shifts the focus from the mistake itself to their emotions, which builds trust.

Another aspect is how you frame the conversation. Instead of honing in on what went wrong, it’s helpful to highlight the effort they put in and the process they went through, even if the outcome wasn’t perfect. Letting them know that their effort is noticed and appreciated can boost their confidence. When they feel that their hard work is valued, they’re more likely to discuss their challenges openly, rather than feeling like they failed. If they feel supported during these moments, they will be more inclined to seek your guidance in the future without fearing a negative response.

Listening is another vital tool. When they make a mistake, resist the urge to immediately jump in with advice or corrections. Instead, ask them how they feel about what happened or what they think they could do differently next time. This not only gives them ownership of their problem-solving but also empowers them to reflect and learn from their experiences. Sometimes, when children are given the space to voice their thoughts, they can surprise you with their insights. And even if they don’t have an answer right away, they’ll appreciate being part of the conversation rather than being lectured.

It’s also important to be patient with progress. Instead of expecting a big shift in behavior or attitude overnight, focus on the small steps they take. Recognizing these smaller victories can go a long way in motivating them to keep improving, even when they stumble. They need to see that progress is more important than perfection, and your role is to guide them through the ups and downs without focusing too much on the final result.

Finally, your own approach to challenges and mistakes plays a big role in shaping how they will handle their own. When they see you approach difficulties with a positive mindset—whether it's a work challenge or a personal frustration—they’re learning that setbacks don’t define them. Modeling this kind of attitude will encourage them to talk about their own struggles more openly and with less fear of judgment.

In essence, the goal is to build trust and maintain a positive tone, even when discussing difficult topics. With this approach, your daughters will not only feel comfortable coming to you but will also develop a stronger sense of resilience in facing their own challenges. You’ll find that as they feel more supported, their confidence in addressing their weaknesses will naturally grow.