My BF is a stalker. It was fun when he used to stalk me because I thought he was genuinely interested in knowing more about me, but now I see him stalking profiles of other women. When I caught him, he dismissed saying Instagram suggested these profiles. I have known him for 4 years but this is one behaviour I am not comfortable at all. What should I do? Should I report him, break up with him? He hasn't misbehaved with anyone but my friend told me that he sent her a request to follow on Instagram. I did my own investigation and found that he has another account on which he follows only women. I am honestly very confused and shocked.

Ans: Your approach of using STP for your daughters higher education goal is a good way to move a lump sum into equity gradually. The main point is to match the asset allocation with the time left for the education goal.

» Suggested structure

Keep the Rs.15 lakh initially in a suitable hybrid fund.
Use STP from the hybrid fund into two diversified equity categories.
A combination of Multi Cap and Large & Mid Cap can work well.
You need not use too many funds. Three funds are enough for this goal.

For example:

Hybrid Fund – Rs.15 lakh initially
Multi Cap Fund – STP destination
Large & Mid Cap Fund – STP destination

» How to use STP

I would prefer a systematic STP over a very short period.

If the education goal is more than 5 years away, equity allocation can be meaningful.
The Rs.15 lakh can be shifted gradually over around 12 months.
You can divide the STP between the two equity categories.
Avoid changing funds frequently based on short-term market movements.

STP is mainly useful for managing entry risk. It does not remove market risk.

» Do not ignore the education timeline

This is the most important part.

If higher education is:

More than 10 years away – higher equity allocation can be considered.
Around 5–10 years away – balanced equity and hybrid allocation may be better.
Less than 5 years away – avoid taking high equity risk with the entire corpus.

As the education date comes closer, gradually move the required amount towards safer investments. This protects the money already created.

» Multi Cap vs Large & Mid Cap

Both categories can complement each other.

Multi Cap gives exposure across large, mid and small companies.
Large & Mid Cap gives a relatively stronger focus on large and mid-sized companies.
Combining both can create some overlap, so the portfolio should be reviewed periodically.

I would not select funds only based on the latest 1-year or 3-year returns. Fund quality, portfolio consistency, risk management and long-term performance matter more.

» One alternative idea

Instead of keeping the complete Rs.15 lakh in one hybrid fund, you can also consider a two-stage approach.

Keep the amount in a suitable hybrid/debt-oriented allocation initially.
Start STP into diversified equity funds.
Once the required equity allocation is reached, stop the STP.
Continue monitoring the overall portfolio rather than continuously adding new funds.

This keeps the portfolio simple and easier to manage.

» 360-degree education planning

The Rs.15 lakh should not be viewed separately.

Also consider:

Current age of your daughter.
Expected year of higher education.
India or overseas education.
Present education cost and future cost.
Other investments already available for this goal.
Your monthly SIP capacity.
Emergency fund and adequate insurance.
A separate safe corpus as the education date gets closer.

If the goal is 8–12 years away, this Rs.15 lakh can become a strong foundation. Regular SIPs along with it can make the education corpus much stronger.

» Final Insights

Your basic STP idea is sensible. I would prefer a simple 3-fund structure rather than holding many schemes.

The exact equity allocation and STP period should depend mainly on your daughters age and when the higher education money will actually be required.

As an AMFI-Registered MFD, I would also suggest reviewing this goal at least once a year and reducing equity exposure as the goal approaches.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

AMFI-Registered MFD – ARN 4188

www.holisticinvestment.in

https://www.linkedin.com/in/ramalingamcfp/

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Ans: Dear Jayakiran,
If you don't or hesitate to talk about an issue that is bothering you both, then don't you think that it's time for someone neutral to help you break the ice on it? Obviously the best is when the couple a good channel of communication and discuss anything and everything, but if there's a lot of hesitation, kindly seek the help of a professional to help you both on this...
There are phases in life where intimacy dips like: after the birth of a child, loss of any kind like a job or a near and dear, financial instability...all these can bring a time when intimacy will be the last thing on your minds as you have other emotional situations to face and be in...be patient, try and sit down to talk about these...to start a conversation, start spending a lot of time together to bring back the love that is hiding somewhere and then these kind of chats become easier...if you are still struggling, do seek professional help!

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Ans: HI GAAURAV,
GREETINGS FROM THE REDIFFGURUS!
There are low chances for admissions to less competitive programs at COEP, SPIT, and PICT.

However, you can secure a seat in DJSCE for the following programs: E&TC, Mechanical, and Allied Subjects.


BEST WISHES.

Ans: HI GAAURAV,
GREETINGS FROM THE REDIFFGURUS!
There are low chances for admissions to less competitive programs at COEP, SPIT, and PICT.

However, you can secure a seat in DJSCE for the following programs: E&TC, Mechanical, and Allied Subjects.


BEST WISHES.

Ans: HI GAAURAV,
GREETINGS FROM THE REDIFFGURUS!
There are low chances for admissions to less competitive programs at COEP, SPIT, and PICT.

However, you can secure a seat in DJSCE for the following programs: E&TC, Mechanical, and Allied Subjects.


BEST WISHES.

Ans: HI,
Greetings from the REDIFFGURUS!
Bit difficult.

BEST WISHES.

Ans: Please confirm directly with St. Xavier’s admissions office before applying, especially whether they require Mathematics as part of the original HSC/12th qualification.

Good luck.
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