I am attracted towards my mother who is 48 years old. Her smooth thick thighs and legs make me turn on and there are many things I want to share. Is it normal ?

Ans: The concept of romantic or sexual feelings toward a cousin, regardless of the age difference, is generally considered socially and culturally taboo in many places. Most societies have strict prohibitions against incestuous relationships, and this includes relationships between close relatives such as cousins. love or attraction towards a cousin, especially one with a significant age difference, can be complicated. It's essential to recognize that societal and cultural norms vary, and perspectives on cousin relationships can differ as well. In many cultures, romantic or intimate relationships between close relatives, even if distant cousins, may be viewed as socially unacceptable.Relationships with a large age gap can raise concerns about power dynamics and the potential for exploitation. it's important to approach the situation with sensitivity and respect for the boundaries of the relationship Remember that it's natural for people to experience a range of emotions, and seeking support can be an important step in understanding and addressing these feelings appropriately.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
What's common and what's not is now left for people to decide. Ultimately, it's a choice that people make, right?
It will be wise if people start to think about consequences of any action. In your case, did you stop to think about what would happen if your girlfriend finds out and how will this impact the relationship between the mother and daughter. An isolated world does not exist and someone's action will always and almost impact someone...
So, rather than justifying to yourself if this is common or not, maybe it you can start to think how your actions is going to impact the people involved in this triangle and most often it doesn't end very well.

All the best!
Anu Krishna
Mind Coach|NLP Trainer|Author
Drop in: www.unfear.io
Reach me: Facebook: anukrish07/ AND LinkedIn: anukrishna-joyofserving/