i am 42 years old divorced men with healthy life style my parents are pussing me to marry 21 year old widow women with 1 year old baby should i move if yes how to approach the women and express my intrest

Ans: I am sorry to hear about the loss of your wife. It's understandable that you may feel lonely and desire companionship.

However, when it comes to considering a new marriage, it's important to take into account the well-being and best interests of your children. It's important to ensure that any new relationship does not negatively impact your children's emotional or physical well-being.

Before considering a new marriage, it may be helpful to discuss your intentions with your children and get their input and feelings about the situation. You may also want to consider seeking the guidance of a therapist or counselor to help you navigate this transition.

If you do decide to pursue a new relationship, it's important to take the time to get to know the person and establish a strong foundation of trust and mutual respect before considering marriage. It's also important to be honest with any potential partner about your situation and responsibilities as a parent.

Ultimately, the decision to remarry is a personal one that should be based on your own needs and desires as well as the well-being of your children. It's important to proceed with caution and thoughtfulness, taking into account the needs and feelings of all parties involved.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
You seem to have a good set-up for yourself. The question is: Why would you want to stir things up, move away from what feels comfortable at your age?
Especially when you know that your expenses have been covered by your children, would you be willing to give up a roof over your head, leave your family and move in with her?
She does mention that she will take care of you; my suggestion is...go n experience it for a few weeks for yourself. At 77, there are a few things that you may find difficult to adjust to and you really don't need to mend backwards to adjust. At the same time, it maybe a welcome change for you to have a companion.
Talk to your children; they may resist this at first and reprimand you for having such thoughts but at the end of the day, it's your life...You can tell them that you will try the arrangement for a few weeks and then come to a decision...that will also give the lady an idea whether she is able to take on your responsibility as well. Talking about things and experiencing them are two different things. Just that, you must look ta your comfort and stability in this phase of your life before making any decisions.

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