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Dating, Relationships Expert - Answered on Sep 29, 2025

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Asked by Anonymous - Sep 18, 2025Hindi
Relationship

Am 39 years I failed to get someone to get married to what should I do

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
I understand that you feel like you’ve failed but you are only 39. There’s no set age for marriage. I suggest trying a dating and matchmaking app to find yourself a suitable partner. It will give you a little more control over your love life and open up a much wider pool of potential matches.

A gentle reminder, do not rush because you see everyone else finding love and getting married. I know it can be hard when you feel constantly left behind but I assure you that your time will come too. Rushing will not help; it will only lead to making wrong choices out of desperation.

Hope this helps.

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Asked by Anonymous - Apr 17, 2025Hindi
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Hello I am 41 years old but due to careless in life I can't take decision for marriage but now I am realising something wrong happened i started searching alliance but didn't get I want to be relation soon. Please guide me
Ans: It’s completely okay to have taken time figuring out what you wanted in life. Sometimes we don’t move forward simply because we weren’t ready, or we lacked the clarity or emotional support needed at the time. But that doesn't mean you're behind. Everyone’s timeline is different, and yours is still very much unfolding.

Now that you're feeling ready for a serious relationship, here are a few steps you can take to approach this new chapter with confidence and self-awareness.

Start with clarity. Reflect on what kind of partner you're looking for—not just in terms of age or background, but emotionally and mentally. What values matter to you? What kind of connection are you seeking? Are you open to someone who has been married before? Children? When you’re clear, it becomes easier to recognize the right person when they appear.

At the same time, look inward. Do some emotional housekeeping. Ask yourself: What kind of partner do I want to be? Am I emotionally available? Am I still carrying regret, fear, or pressure about being “late” to marriage? Because entering a relationship out of guilt or urgency often leads to settling. But entering it from a place of self-respect and genuine desire creates something meaningful.

Since you're actively searching, it’s okay to use all tools at your disposal—matrimonial sites, family networks, friends, or even a good matchmaker if culturally appropriate. But be patient and realistic. Finding someone who is also ready, aligned with your values, and emotionally compatible can take time.

Also, try not to let pressure—internal or external—rush you. You don’t need a "perfect" partner; you need someone who sees you, respects you, and is willing to grow with you.

And here’s something to hold on to: many people find love in their 40s, 50s, even later—and those relationships are often more conscious, mature, and fulfilling, because they’re built on real-life experience and emotional wisdom, not just youthful impulse.

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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Jun 22, 2025

Asked by Anonymous - Jun 19, 2025Hindi
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Inam finding difficulty to get second marriage after my first marriage ended in divorce. I am 39 year female. Please suggest ways to get a good companion how to choose at this age and also I am looking guy with no issues/children and within same community which I belong.
Ans: First, be clear within yourself about what you truly seek — not just "no past baggage" but also shared values, lifestyle compatibility, emotional maturity, and a sense of peace when you're with him. You’re not just choosing a partner — you’re choosing a future that aligns with the person you’ve grown into.

Since you are specific about the community and the absence of children from a previous marriage, you may need to be strategic but open in where you look. Along with trusted matrimonial platforms (you may try both community-based ones and modern curated matchmaking services), also let friends or extended family you trust know that you’re open to exploring proposals — sometimes word-of-mouth alliances bring surprisingly good connections.

While choosing, don’t just assess background or profession — give time to observe his emotional depth, communication style, respect for your past, and how he responds to small differences or stress. These are the real foundations for peace and partnership.

Also, give yourself permission to set boundaries without guilt. You are not obligated to compromise your standards just because it’s a second marriage or because of age. You deserve companionship, not adjustment.

And perhaps most importantly, don’t let societal timelines cloud your confidence. You are 39, not late — just clearer than before. Be honest, hopeful, and patient with yourself.

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a. An apartment in a four in one building was purchased by me on 18/02/1991 at a cost of Rs.2,60,000/- b. All the four owners of the building decided to go for redevelopment and Joint Development agreement was done with a builder on 12/02/2019. c. As per agreement total 6 flats will be constructed of which four for original owners and two for the builder. d. The vacant possession of the building was handed over to builder only during June 2019. e. Building demolition permission was obtained on 5/08/2019 f. New Building approval was given on 9/10/2020. ( The delay was due to Coastal Zone permission and new FSI rule approval ) g. Completion certificate was obtained on 8/3/2023. h. There was nil monetary transaction between owners and builder. i. The builder sold his flats for RS.1.04 crore and Rs.1.02 crores respectively 0n 30th June 2023.(ie.on getting completion certificate) j. Now I propose to sell my flat for 1.125 crore. BASIC DETAILS : I. I have Pension income, Interest from deposits and Dividend income from my Bank’s shares and am a regular IT payer. II. I have two house properties of which the above is one and another is a dilapidated house in a remote village with taxable value of Rs.35/- III. I was showing the house property income of Rs.35/- under ITR2 till assessment year 2020-21. IV. On demolition of the above flat in 2019, I was showing the village property only as self-occupied with NIL income under ITR1. V. This continued till assessment year 2025-26. ( It means for assessment years 2023-24,2024-25 and 2025-26 the reconstructed property was omitted to be shown in IT. The effect on taxation is Rs.11/- per year considering the village property’s taxable value) VI. This year I have shown both the properties as self-occupied in my IT return Advise sought: A. How to ascertain the value of property on the date of completion certificate? B. The property not being alienated, the capital gains should be “NIL” as on 2023. But in 2023-24 IT return it was not brought out. What is course correction for it now? C. What will be the Capital gain on sale of this property now - may be during September?
Ans: Relavent dates and figures are :
01. Purchase Price (1991) Rs.2.60 (L).
02. Expected Sale Price (2026) Rs.112.50 (L).
03. No Cost/Expenses were incurred during 12.02.2019 to 2026 (expected Sale date).
04. You will have to pay LTCG based on these figures.
05 (a). TAX PLANNING : You should get a Valuation Certificate from Architect, about the value of your Flat as on 01.04.2001. This can be treated as Cost of your property/flat in 2001. Indexation benefit may be taken from this date & this value.
05 (b). Since you occupied this Flat during the period from 2001 (date of valuation) till June-2019, you can claim Maintenance & Renovation Cost during this period, if any. This shall reduce your tax liability.
05 (c). Cost or Value an on date of completion certificate, is not relevant in this case. Cost of newly build flat shall be considered as explained in above points.
06. LTCG shall be taxed at rate of 12.50% without Indexation or @ 20% with Indexation.
07. Exemption can be claimed u/s 54 if you purchase another Residential unit, with in specified time. You can also purchase Capital Gain Bonds up to Rs.50.00 (L) to save Tax.
08. You are most Welcome to write for any further details or points, if required. Thanks.

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Career Counsellor - Answered on Sep 07, 2026

Asked by Anonymous - Sep 06, 2026
Career
Hello sir Can you suggest me which college should I target Based on mht cet in ACAP/SPOT ROUND For tech branch at 85 percentile Ladies obc mh candidature
Ans: Based on your MHT-CET percentile, Maharashtra candidature, OBC category and female candidature, you can consider the following colleges for ACAP/Institute-Level or Spot Round opportunities, depending on the vacancies available: A) Dream – Apply, but don’t depend much on these: 1) PCCOE, Ravet – CSE/AI-DS; 2) AISSMS IOIT, Pune – IT/E&TC; 3) MMCOE, Karvenagar – AI-DS/E&TC; 4) MIT Academy of Engineering, Alandi – CSE/IT; 5) JSPM RSCOE, Tathawade – E&TC/other technology branches. At 85 percentile, these should be treated as aspirational options, with ACAP/spot vacancies determining the actual opportunity.

B) Target – Best ACAP/Spot opportunities: Dr. D. Y. Patil Institute of Technology, Pimpri-Akurdi – AI-DS/E&TC; 7) Dr. D. Y. Patil Technical Campus, Talegaon – CSE/AI-DS; 8) Dhole Patil College of Engineering, Pune – IT; 9) Zeal College of Engineering & Research, Pune – AI-DS/IT; 10) Sinhgad College of Engineering, Vadgaon – IT; 11) D. Y. Patil College of Engineering, Lohegaon – AI-DS/E&TC. This should be the primary focus because these options provide a more realistic balance between college quality, technology branches and the possibility of ACAP/spot vacancies.

C) Safe – Keep as strong backups
JSPM Narhe Technical Campus – CSE/IT/AI-DS; 13) RMD Sinhgad School of Engineering – IT/AI-DS; 14) Pillai College of Engineering, New Panvel – IT/Computer; 15) Terna Engineering College, Navi Mumbai – IT/Computer; 16) SIES Graduate School of Technology, Navi Mumbai – IT/Computer. These should be maintained as practical backup choices if preferred Pune options do not materialise.

Recommended preference order: 1) DYP Talegaon CSE, 2) Dhole Patil IT, 3) Zeal AI-DS, 4) Sinhgad IT, 5) DYP Akurdi AI-DS/E&TC, 6) AISSMS IOIT E&TC, 7) PCCOE-R AI-DS, 8) JSPM Narhe CSE/IT, 9) RMD Sinhgad IT, and 10) DYP Lohegaon AI-DS/E&TC. ACAP/Institute-Level vacancies are dynamic, so these are targets rather than guaranteed admissions; Maharashtra CET Cell requires institute-level admissions to follow the prescribed admission rules and merit process. All The Best for Your Prosperous Future!

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